Anyway, I personally cannot imagine hurting people just because I have the power to do so.
That's good for you but absolute power where there is no oversight can corrupt even the best of us.
The perfect storm that is religious sexual abuse happens because these communities are populated by sexual predators in positions of power and by innocent individuals with a desire to please. In the RCC priests are gods. Young cult members who are part of the cult through no actions of their own haven't got a clue about how sexual abuse happens or even what it is. Like their parents they are brainwashed in addition to being young and having a desire to please their adult caregivers. It's the rare exception of a parent who looks out for this stuff to protect the child.
If power corrupts in the context of the Catholic Church, then the priesthood transforms otherwise innocent men into pedophiles and sexual predators. I'm not sure how the priesthood could have that effect on men. Some say that the enforced celibacy of the priesthood causes priests to become pedophiles, but I don't know of any evidence that celibacy causes pedophilia. Are those who make that claim saying that if they were not allowed to be sexually active with a willing adult partner, then they would sexually abuse children? It sounds that way, but I'm sure they would deny it which defeats their argument. It's also important to understand that the proportion of priests who are pedophiles is no greater than the proportion of men from any segment of society.
So it seems more likely to me that pedophile priests were pedophiles before they were priests. Their entering the priesthood resulted from a desire to have access to children. You can justifiably criticize the Church for covering up pedophilia but not for causing it.
Religions that require obedience are dangerous places and should be avoided. Period.
Danger results from what kind of obedience is demanded. Most employers require obedience from their workers, but most employers are not dangerous for doing so. So if a religion requires its followers to do one thing and abstain from doing another thing, then that religion is not necessarily dangerous. If a follower does not obey, then she can either choose to leave that religion, or the religion can expel her.