Harry Bosch
Contributor
I woke up this morning to the following offensive CNN headline:
"The Deliberate Deaths of 6 adopted kids"
https://www.cnn.com/2019/04/06/us/hart-family-crash-inquest-searches/index.html
What the hell? That's a very offensive headline. I have three "adopted kids". But they are my kids. Other than biology, there is no difference between my adopted kids and biological kids. Ask any normal adopted family - they'll agree. The headline is sensational. I think that it is trying to paint the picture that violence against "adopted kids" is more likely than against biological kids. And actually, this is false. The rate of violence in "birth families" is far greater than in families with adopted kids. The amount of failures in birth families is far higher. Birth families abandon their kids are far far greater rate than in adopted families. The fact is that bad things happening in adopted families is very rare. There was a woman years ago who got tired of her adopted son from Russia. That was huge news. How awful. But this type of thing happens every single day to birth families. Why the double standard. For example: I just did a quick google search and found the following story:
https://www.wsls.com/news/national/texas-mom-accused-of-abandoning-kids-for-beach-vacation
The headline for the above story is "Texas mom accused of abandoning kids for beach vacation".
Here's the issue that bothers me: if a "birth" mom or dad commits a crime against their children, their kids are described as their kids. But if a mom or dad commits a crime against an adopted kid, the kid is described as "adopted kid". Why the double standard. It hints that crimes against adopted kids is a greater problem than against "birth kids". It's extremely offensive.
https://www.cnn.com/2019/04/06/us/hart-family-crash-inquest-searches/index.html
"The Deliberate Deaths of 6 adopted kids"
https://www.cnn.com/2019/04/06/us/hart-family-crash-inquest-searches/index.html
What the hell? That's a very offensive headline. I have three "adopted kids". But they are my kids. Other than biology, there is no difference between my adopted kids and biological kids. Ask any normal adopted family - they'll agree. The headline is sensational. I think that it is trying to paint the picture that violence against "adopted kids" is more likely than against biological kids. And actually, this is false. The rate of violence in "birth families" is far greater than in families with adopted kids. The amount of failures in birth families is far higher. Birth families abandon their kids are far far greater rate than in adopted families. The fact is that bad things happening in adopted families is very rare. There was a woman years ago who got tired of her adopted son from Russia. That was huge news. How awful. But this type of thing happens every single day to birth families. Why the double standard. For example: I just did a quick google search and found the following story:
https://www.wsls.com/news/national/texas-mom-accused-of-abandoning-kids-for-beach-vacation
The headline for the above story is "Texas mom accused of abandoning kids for beach vacation".
Here's the issue that bothers me: if a "birth" mom or dad commits a crime against their children, their kids are described as their kids. But if a mom or dad commits a crime against an adopted kid, the kid is described as "adopted kid". Why the double standard. It hints that crimes against adopted kids is a greater problem than against "birth kids". It's extremely offensive.
https://www.cnn.com/2019/04/06/us/hart-family-crash-inquest-searches/index.html