This is projection. You resist input that's different from your preconceptions. But to achieve the openmindedness that you idealize, you resort to "I'm not dogmatic... like
you people are". By creating a contrast with others, you get to boast a superiority.
It's like trying to prove "I'm cool" by asserting "you all are assholes". It undermines the point.
It has to do with you preaching your belief about others
at them, rather than talking
with them.
The jargon doesn't help -- "your god", "idols", "worship", et al. People have to translate that crap into plain English: "you people are dogmatists".
What is idolized is the thinking you hold supreme. If an atheist, you hold your atheism thinking supreme. You are an idolater.
To me "atheism" is a happenstance of having theists around. When other folk carry a stone around that I don't carry, that can be a difference that makes a difference. But if you want to know my "belief system" it's eclectic and I know no "ism" that summarizes it well.
I haven't fleshed out a full "atheology". The only problem I see with doing so is that I don't identify theism as the worst problem in the world, so it's not top on my list of priorities.
Break that logic trail if you can.
It's not a logic trail, it's sloppy writing/thinking.
Theists often misname naturalism or physicalism or scientism as "atheism". Maybe you're doing the same.
If someone wanted to flesh out an "atheology", it could well remain fully open to new info and retain its ideal too. After all, what's an atheist supposed to "evolve" to, when there's no meaningful use for the word "god"? There are supernaturalist theists actively distracting from reality... And there are some "esoteric" obfuscators trying to resurrect an ideal from crumbling ruins. Why can't a worthy ideal translate easily to modern English, and not get muddled with god-talk?