Beating your BAD wife

[Syed]

Quran
Sahih International: Men are in charge of women by [right of] what Allah has given one over the other and what they spend [for maintenance] from their wealth. So righteous women are devoutly obedient, guarding in [the husband's] absence what Allah would have them guard. But those [wives] from whom you fear arrogance - [first] advise them; [then if they persist], forsake them in bed; and [finally], strike them. But if they obey you [once more], seek no means against them. Indeed, Allah is ever Exalted and Grand.

Pickthall: Men are in charge of women, because Allah hath made the one of them to excel the other, and because they spend of their property (for the support of women). So good women are the obedient, guarding in secret that which Allah hath guarded. As for those from whom ye fear rebellion, admonish them and banish them to beds apart, and scourge them. Then if they obey you, seek not a way against them. Lo! Allah is ever High, Exalted, Great.

Yusuf Ali: Men are the protectors and maintainers of women, because Allah has given the one more (strength) than the other, and because they support them from their means. Therefore the righteous women are devoutly obedient, and guard in (the husband's) absence what Allah would have them guard. As to those women on whose part ye fear disloyalty and ill-conduct, admonish them (first), (Next), refuse to share their beds, (And last) beat them (lightly); but if they return to obedience, seek not against them Means (of annoyance): For Allah is Most High, great (above you all).


beating your BAD wife is a last resort to save your marriage and children and yourself and your wife

but if you abuse your wife you go to hell

beating your bad wife to correct her as you beat your children to correct them, beating does not mean you brake her bone

if YOU disagree with the quran ----> DONT beat your wife divorce her and make YOUR children suffer pain of divorce rest of their life



as good father to save my children i will kick her ass to save my children from becoming motherless and fatherless

So a woman can beat her husband to correct him and save their marriage?

why not if she can? in fact there are lot of women who kick their husband ass to correct them

 

[Keith&Co.]

if YOU disagree with the quran

Kindof a given, really.

DONT beat your wife divorce her and make YOUR children suffer pain of divorce rest of their life

Gotta tell you, the 'pain of divorce' pales in comparison with seeing one loved one beat the shit out of another loved one.

as good father to save my children i will kick her ass to save my children from becoming motherless and fatherless

Fucking hell.
I'm the child of divorce and i am neither motherless nor fatherless.
But really, big surprise that you don't know what you're talking about, Syed.

So a woman can beat her husband to correct him and save their marriage?

If they're beating each other, at either polarity, there isn't a marriage to save anymore.

why not if she can? in fact there are lot of women who kick their husband ass to correct them

Is that IAW the Quran?

 

[bigfield]

If you find yourself in a relationship where violence is your only option, then you have already failed your children terribly. You are truly a fool if your think beating your wife will do anything except traumatise your children further.

In addition, beating your wife or your children is an act of extreme cowardice. Only a coward uses violence to coerce people who are smaller and weaker than he is. I doubt that you would ever have the courage to resort to violence when faced with a man who could beat you senseless in return.

Conclusion: Islam is a religion of uncivilised cowardice obeyed by weak, simple-minded men.

 

[Syed]

If you find yourself in a relationship where violence is your only option, then you have already failed your children terribly. You are truly a fool if your think beating your wife will do anything except traumatise your children further.

In addition, beating your wife or your children is an act of extreme cowardice. Only a coward uses violence to coerce people who are smaller and weaker than he is. I doubt that you would ever have the courage to resort to violence when faced with a man who could beat you senseless in return.

Conclusion: Islam is a religion of uncivilised cowardice obeyed by weak, simple-minded men.

look you dont have any solution how to correct bad wife except divorce

there are lot of bad wives in the world and of course bad husbands

allah said [first] advise them; [then if they persist], forsake them in bed; and [finally], strike them.

how do you save YOUR children from pain of divorce rest of their life?

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Kindof a given, really.

DONT beat your wife divorce her and make YOUR children suffer pain of divorce rest of their life

Gotta tell you, the 'pain of divorce' pales in comparison with seeing one loved one beat the shit out of another loved one.

as good father to save my children i will kick her ass to save my children from becoming motherless and fatherless

Fucking hell.
I'm the child of divorce and i am neither motherless nor fatherless.
But really, big surprise that you don't know what you're talking about, Syed.

So a woman can beat her husband to correct him and save their marriage?

If they're beating each other, at either polarity, there isn't a marriage to save anymore.

why not if she can? in fact there are lot of women who kick their husband ass to correct them

Is that IAW the Quran?

from common sense

 

[RavenSky]

As has already been stated, if you are beating your wife, there is no marriage to save and you have already harmed your children irreparably.

If your religion is telling you to beat your wife, it is a sick and disgusting religion, and has no place in a civilized society.

 

[beero1000]

I wonder what Syed's reaction would be if his wife started beating him. Would he think of the children?

 

[bigfield]

allah said [first] advise them; [then if they persist], forsake them in bed; and [finally], strike them.

This just shows that Muhammed was a coward and a fool, as are all of the men who follow his teachings.

how do you save YOUR children from pain of divorce rest of their life?

Maintaining a healthy relationship is simple:

• Solve disagreements by calmly and reasonably discussing them instead of shouting.
• Admit when you are wrong and apologise.
• Contribute to the household financially and do housework.
• Help your partner when she has problems.
• Give your partner multiple orgasms.
• Tell her you love her.
• Tell her she's beautiful.

If you ever find yourself in a relationship where you are resorting to violence to make your wife behave the way you want her to then you are a colossal screw-up as a husband and your relationship is beyond repair.

Beating your wife is far worse for your children than divorcing her. If you don't understand such a simple thing then you are extremely ignorant about the effects of domestic violence and have no place advising anyone on how to be a father or a husband.

 

[Syed]

As has already been stated, if you are beating your wife, there is no marriage to save and you have already harmed your children irreparably.

If your religion is telling you to beat your wife, it is a sick and disgusting religion, and has no place in a civilized society.

how do you correct a bad wife

america is number one in abuse of women so dont called yourselves civilized thats insult to human race

 

[Keith&Co.]

how do you correct a bad wife

I think that the idea that problems in the marriage mean a bad wife that needs to be corrected, that's pretty close to the start of your problems, not a solution.

america is number one in abuse of women so dont called yourselves civilized thats insult to human race

No.
I would probably say that America is far ahead of any other country in reported abuse, but not number one in abuse.
So take the 'insult to human race' opinion and shove it up your nose.

 

[Keith&Co.]

look you dont have any solution how to correct bad wife except divorce

If you're to the point of 'correcting' a 'bad wife' you've already fucked it up.
I've been married for almost 30 years, and raised three sons and i've never had to 'correct' my wife, not in that sense.
I've corrected her spelling...









....once.

there are lot of bad wives in the world and of course bad husbands

allah said [first] advise them; [then if they persist], forsake them in bed; and [finally], strike them.

Yeeeeeeeeeeeeeah.... IF she's been bad, the man cuts HER off from sex?
What an interesting world view.

how do you save YOUR children from pain of divorce rest of their life?

Divorce has always been an option, of course. It's certainly preferable to abuse, whether it's spouse-on-spouse or parent-on-child.

But we have a few rules about not going to bed angry. And we talk.
And we listen.

And so far, we've never had a difficulty that we couldn't resolve or just decide to ignore for the rest of eternity rather than point it out (I cannot STAND how she loads the dishwasher, but i'll carry that shit to my grave because it's not worth drama... And REALLY not worth 'forsaking her in bed' just to get her to do it my way. And beating her for it? My nothing, Syed, how can you hold that opinion and criticize anyone else's level of civilization).

 

[Tom Sawyer]

If you find yourself in a situation where beating your wife is an option, then you're already a failure as a human being.

 

[Syed]

I wonder what Syed's reaction would be if his wife started beating him. Would he think of the children?

if husband is a bad husband and if wife able to beat him to correct him, she should use her power

nothing wrong with that

 

[Syed]

If you find yourself in a situation where beating your wife is an option, then you're already a failure as a human being.

what should you do if your wife turned out to be bad person and you have little children with her?

 

[Syed]

This just shows that Muhammed was a coward and a fool, as are all of the men who follow his teachings.

how do you save YOUR children from pain of divorce rest of their life?

Maintaining a healthy relationship is simple:

• Solve disagreements by calmly and reasonably discussing them instead of shouting.
• Admit when you are wrong and apologise.
• Contribute to the household financially and do housework.
• Help your partner when she has problems.
• Give your partner multiple orgasms.
• Tell her you love her.
• Tell her she's beautiful.

here what allah said
[first] advise them; [then if they persist], forsake them in bed; and [finally], strike them. But if they obey you [once more], seek no means against them. Indeed, Allah is ever Exalted and Grand.

 

[Tom Sawyer]

If you find yourself in a situation where beating your wife is an option, then you're already a failure as a human being.

what should you do if your wife turned out to be bad person and you have little children with her?

I would divorce her. What I would not do is beat her.

The first reason for that would be because it would be beating my wife. If you're a sociopath who needs a second reason, it would be because beating her wouldn't change her nature and I'd still be married to a bad person.