Might be a replicant
- Jul 7, 2014
- It's a desert out there
- Basic Beliefs
Report away, you're still not a wizard, and I won't be calling you Harry.You don't know what or how my transition is shaped. I have not told you because you have no right to know, and you have not asked.I get irritated, because I genuinely believe that you ardently insisting that you're "trans" because you identify as a "wizard" makes a mockery of actual transgender people. And insisting that you're "gay" because you are in a relationship with a female person who identifies as a man is seriously pushing the boundaries - and it contributes to a growing trend to homophobia and the erosion of people's sexual boundaries.Why do people feel the need to label me a "man"? Why should Emily or Tom or Sigma or my Neighbor nor any person feel the need to label me any given thing (other than perhaps a "queer wizard" which is exactly what I label myself) beyond what directly references relevant realities? Some I would count to label me, and earning all loss of respect that likely entails. Some I would trust to not.
You identify as something that doesn't exist, cannot exist, and is pure fantasy, and it's dumb and meaningless. At least if you were identifying as a woman, other people would know what the fuck that means, even if they didn't agree completely. But nope, you insist that you're not a "man", you're a "wizard". That means nothing. FFS, I could say I identify as a manticore. Yay. Also means fuck all. But you argue and argue and argue that your identity as a wizard is somehow valid and relevant. It's not, it's useless and pointless and lacks meaning of any sort. You also use your "identity" as a wizard to identify yourself into being both trans. Yay you, you've appropriated someone else's real struggles for your own gratification.
If you want to consider yourself "queer", I don't care, I'm not going to argue with you about that. It's already a pretty nebulous term. At the end of the day, you're a human male who has only had sex with human females. Those are sex-classes, not gender identities. It was you previously insisting that you're "gay" despite not actually, you know, being sexually involved with males of the human species that got my hackles up.
You could ask the actual transgender people here whether what I am is a mockery of them? They know. I've discussed it with them.
Further, maybe you should discuss with allllllllllll the other gay folks I know, have known, continue to know since dating my husband, and divorcing my ex-wife, whether they think I'm 'gay'.
You have also assumed a lot of my sexual history.
I've been raped a few times by people with penises.
All those times the people doing it were "men". I have slept with... Well, it would take me a long time to get really comprehensive with every person with a penis I've had sex with. I've only shared a bed with two women, one of which had a penis and the other with which no sex happened. I've had sex with one person with a vagina in all my life, and he is my husband.
Perhaps you mistake "every person with a vagina I've ever been attracted to came out as a man" with something else? Is it that hard to just assume you don't actually know anything about me?
The fact is, you have defined me out of existence yet here I stand. My statement as to my identity is that it would be nice if you treated me as you would treat, say, Gandalf (or, well, perhaps Radaghast) if they were inexplicably standing before you. Even if you don't believe that thing could exist for such a treatment.
I'm not going to report you here for telling me, wholely embarrassingly inaccurately, what I am as opposed to what the contents of my words are.
Now, there was a question about prison pals...