Maybe because the conflicts aren't actually about religion.
EXACTLY!
Suicide bombers are taking the most profitable (or only) course to feed their family. They get paid to blow themselves up and they are so economically depressed, it is better to die that way and feed your family, than for the whole family to die of starvation together.
Hobby Lobby wasn't about right and wrong in a religious sense.. it was about a company that wanted to avoid the cost of healthcare coverage for their employees
The holocaust was not about the "Jews being in the wrong religion". It was about them taking resources as they migrated into Europe.
It's all aobut money. Religion is the excuse used to avoid "greed" as the lable.
I agree that this is partly true, but let me tell you a story.
I was in my early twenties, and a perfect storm of drugs, partying and laziness sent me into a severe depression. I was too scared to kill myself even though I came close a few times. Feeling that I had exhausted all options to escape the depression, I suddenly started to gravitate to the bible; being raised Catholic, I naturally began with the New Testament.
What started off as a casual read, soon became studying and rereading until I could make sense of it. I decided, after a few weeks of rigorous study, what it all meant; and to this day I understand it at level that most people don't. Jesus was much more strict than I had ever imagined, but being totally committed to gaining entry into heaven, I was willing to do anything. I gave away all of my possessions and even my savings. But I still felt unworthy, and rightfully so given the great demands of Jesus.
However, I did know one way to get into heaven but only as a last resort. In the back of my mind there was a quote from Jesus lingering that guarantees passage through the gates. Jesus explains that giving one's life in his name will gain a life for that person in heaven, and those who don't will lose their life after death which basically means that you go to hell if you have a chance to die for his cause but choose not to take it.
So I thought that the best way to get into heaven would be to go to some strict Islamic country and spread the words of Jesus until I am put to death or die in jail trying. I tried really hard to gain the courage to do it. I spent a lot of time planning it.
Needless to say, I couldn't do it. The day that I decided not to was a very disturbing scene. My parents came home, as I was living with them by then, and they saw me whaling on the ground. I remember feeling this overwhelming pain. It was pain from the decision to live and risk eternal life in hell. I did not sleep for 3 days, and the pain was with me for all three of them. The pain was constant; it actually felt like cold water shocking my body after a hot bath. I eventually got psychiatric help, but I was only diagnosed with depression.
I wish that I could tell you that I am cured from the thought of living in hell for eternity, but it probably won't ever fully leave me. Every once in a while I will do something that Jesus would want me to do; I guess that I do it in hopes that I will somehow get a less cruel hell.
There is something very powerful about religion, especially when one is raised with religion; keep in mind that my parents took the typical approach to practicing Catholicism which is to go to church every Christmas and not eat meat on Good Friday - if someone remembers.