No Hymen, No Diamond

[Bronzeage]

It's the old tennis shoe analogy. Do you want to wear a shoe that's been on dozens of different feet, poorly cared for, and worn on the edges, or a fresh pair of Chucki Taylors, straight out of the box?

Poorly cared for would matter to me. Vaginas don't wear out, though--prior users aren't an issue. I would consider a woman who slept with trash as unsuitable but I don't care how many prior lovers she might have had.

How do you determine that? Is a simple interview sufficient, or would you require a polygraph test?

 

[Keith&Co.]

People don't wear. Sex does not cause physical degradation.
People are not like used cars.

I prefer to think of it the way I think of surgeons

Do I want the one who has done the surgery many times and knows what she's doing or do I want the kid fresh outta med school who has never done it before?

Hey, my first was like a med student. Done it several times...with dead people!

 

[credoconsolans]

Some guys tell me that having children certainly decreases the tightness of a vagina.

Well, that's not a problem that mistresses and second wives can't solve.

OK, but that's not the point. The point is wear and tear.

 

[TSwizzle]

I'm probably missing something but why is this in the political discussion?

 

[purple_kathryn]

Sounds like someone who couldn't be bothered to be better in bed & just wants a woman who won't realise that.

 

[DrZoidberg]

Is there any reasoning behind this doctrine? Is this doctrine of virginity explained anywhere?

It's the old tennis shoe analogy. Do you want to wear a shoe that's been on dozens of different feet, poorly cared for, and worn on the edges, or a fresh pair of Chucki Taylors, straight out of the box?

I can't quite follow the analogy. I thought the virgin thing was just about finding a woman who won't know how small their cocks are, because they have nothing to compare it with?

 

[braces_for_impact]

The Cult of the Virgin and Virginity fetish is as old as fences. It once was a matter of property rights.

These days, there's still an element of possessiveness and territoriality, but the real core of it is fear of being judged and found wanting. No one worries about the bar being too high, when they put the bar where they want it.

Bullseye.

 

[Shadowy Man]

People don't wear. Sex does not cause physical degradation.
People are not like used cars.

Some guys tell me that having children certainly decreases the tightness of a vagina.

And how many men have decided to no longer have sex with their wives because of that?

 

[Bronzeage]

People don't wear. Sex does not cause physical degradation.
People are not like used cars.

Some guys tell me that having children certainly decreases the tightness of a vagina.

This is a subject upon which I have been able to collect quite a bit of data. I can firmly state that all of the qualities found desirable in a vagina, i.e. perceived tightness, lubrication, and color, are not affected by childbirth.

Old joke, slightly on topic:

Mike and Joe meet in a bar. Mike is dating Joe's old girlfriend. Joe says, "How do you like used pussy?" Mike says, "Once you get past the used part, it's pretty good."

 

[Nexus]

The number of sex partners a woman has high predictability on whether or not she will divorce you. A virgin or single sex partner female has an 20% divorce rate. After the woman has 3 to 10 partners you start getting up to the 50% divorce rate.

 

[AthenaAwakened]

The number of sex partners a woman has high predictability on whether or not she will divorce you. A virgin or single sex partner female has an 20% divorce rate. After the woman has 3 to 10 partners you start getting up to the 50% divorce rate.

Well then who ever "you" are, "you" need to get some skills and keep the lady interested.

 

[ZiprHead]

The number of sex partners a woman has high predictability on whether or not she will divorce you. A virgin or single sex partner female has an 20% divorce rate. After the woman has 3 to 10 partners you start getting up to the 50% divorce rate.

How's that work with men and the number of sex partners?

 

[Derec]

The number of sex partners a woman has high predictability on whether or not she will divorce you. A virgin or single sex partner female has an 20% divorce rate. After the woman has 3 to 10 partners you start getting up to the 50% divorce rate.

Well then who ever "you" are, "you" need to get some skills and keep the lady interested.

Yeah, because divorce is always the man's fault.

 

[Bronzeage]

Well then who ever "you" are, "you" need to get some skills and keep the lady interested.

Yeah, because divorce is always the man's fault.

What do you think is the actual percentage of blame?

 

[Derec]

What do you think is the actual percentage of blame?

It's likely that it would average out to about half.
However, given sexist divorce laws women are the biggest beneficiaries of divorce. For example, 96% of alimony recipients are women.

 

[AthenaAwakened]

Well then who ever "you" are, "you" need to get some skills and keep the lady interested.

Yeah, because divorce is always the man's fault.

You really only see the words already in your head when you read, don't you?

 

[Derec]

Yeah, because divorce is always the man's fault.

You really only see the words already in your head when you read, don't you?

You responded to women divorcing men with blaming men "not keeping her interested" for the divorce.

 

[Bronzeage]

What do you think is the actual percentage of blame?

It's likely that it would average out to about half.
However, given sexist divorce laws women are the biggest beneficiaries of divorce. For example, 96% of alimony recipients are women.

Have you ever been married or divorced?

Alimony is a myth. It's something from an older generation. These days, only the very wealthy even consider alimony in a divorce settlement. The average divorcing couple doesn't have enough to argue over.

In most divorces, each person's standard of living drops when they separate. Women tend to suffer a little more. This because of the wage disparity between men and women. Of course, when a woman kicks a man out because he is a stay at home bum, who never contributes anything, she is better off without him.

People marry and divorce for diverse reasons, but a woman who marries with the idea of profiting from a divorce is a very very rare thing.

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You really only see the words already in your head when you read, don't you?

You responded to women divorcing men with blaming men "not keeping her interested" for the divorce.

Actually, if women really divorced men for "not keeping her interested," there wouldn't be many 10th anniversaries.

 

[Jolly_Penguin]

Some guys tell me that having children certainly decreases the tightness of a vagina.

This is a subject upon which I have been able to collect quite a bit of data. I can firmly state that all of the qualities found desirable in a vagina, i.e. perceived tightness, lubrication, and color, are not affected by childbirth.

True. And a very very very common myth. The muscle there is what matters for tightness, and women can even train themselves to be tighter. That really surprised me when I learned it.

 

[AthenaAwakened]

It's likely that it would average out to about half.
However, given sexist divorce laws women are the biggest beneficiaries of divorce. For example, 96% of alimony recipients are women.

Have you ever been married or divorced?

Alimony is a myth. It's something from an older generation. These days, only the very wealthy even consider alimony in a divorce settlement. The average divorcing couple doesn't have enough to argue over.

In most divorces, each person's standard of living drops when they separate. Women tend to suffer a little more. This because of the wage disparity between men and women. Of course, when a woman kicks a man out because he is a stay at home bum, who never contributes anything, she is better off without him.

People marry and divorce for diverse reasons, but a woman who marries with the idea of profiting from a divorce is a very very rare thing.

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You really only see the words already in your head when you read, don't you?

You responded to women divorcing men with blaming men "not keeping her interested" for the divorce.

Actually, if women really divorced men for "not keeping her interested," there wouldn't be many 10th anniversaries.

Thank you, and vice versa.

I realize sarcasm doesn't text well. but Derec, you don't even try. Please tell me you are not trying. Because if you are trying and you still miss as much as you do ...