Please be gentle with me, here. I'm exploring a question that occurs to me. I'm not trying to assert a thesis and make everyone admit I am right. I'm asking. Please answer productively. If you want to call me a racist, it's probably true given how I've been raised, so that's not useful dialogue. Instead, please understand that this question is a genuine question and if it turns out to be racist (as in purely useless racism) than let me know what's wrong with it so I can discard it. Because I don't intend this to actually suppose "race" is the "driver" of this, but rather the recipient, and hence worth addressing.
Anyway, that said...
It is said in studies that one of the strongest risk indicators for abusers (of many kinds) is childhood abuse. That people who grow up in terrible environments are likely to repeat the thing that was normalized to them. Not everyone of course, because this is not genetic (hence my claim that this is not actually about race, yet race becomes a proxy) and some people who grow up in abuse are able to get whatever help is necessary to break the cycle. That could be family support elsewhere, it could be decent schooling that provides some counseling or escape. It could be certain circumstances that normalize some _other_ behavior, such as a normal uncle's house as refuge, a dedicated teacher, a job with a fostering boss, or even a place and time that allows safe internal contemplation for balance, etc. But for a large portion of people who commit abuse and violence and inappropriate response, they grew up in normalized abuse.
It is given that most of the people in America who are black have some group history of receiving abuse.
Those who were brought to America as slaves of course received constant daily degradation, some with brutal physical abuse. Others with brutal emotional abuse such as the taking of children and selling them away. This exists a mere 3-8 generations back depending on how old one currently is. My own grandfather was born in the 1800s and he was in my house as I was growing up, so the direct link between the behaviors he grew up with from parents who were alive during slavery were told with only a single remove to me as I grew up. In many families, this grandparent influence is strong, thus shrinking the distance of history. Other families have shorter generations and hence my number of 3-8. These abused people had children and reared them. And isn't it expected that an environment tainted by abuse will exist in that next generation's childhood?
Even closer is the also real abuse of the Jim Crow era, the segregation of the military, schools, jobs opportunities that occurred throughout the first part of the 20th century. These things are current for many people alive, and are therefore present in the racial collective as both personal experience and the direct experience of caregivers. Lynchings, systemic racial robberies, social and police abuse.
And the current abuse is still real for certain segments of that American black population. Many people who are black in America have experienced it, but definitely some more than others; typically urban populations have more constant and more violent experiences at the hands of police, even when they have done nothing at all wrong.
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Now we ask, WHY do some people see a "racial behavior" that they claim is "inferior"? Is this not precisely the same question as WHY do we see common behaviors of people who were abused as children? Not universal, obviously, but strongly correlated?
Rather than account for differences in socio-economic status, what would we find if we "accounted for" differences in experience of abusive practices?
And then shouldn't we ask, WHY do we blame the victims of abuse for not knowing how and when to seek the help necessary to break the cycle?
Why are we asking, "where are their parents" (e.g. Baltimore Riots) when the parents are also victims of the same cycle? How are those parents going to magically change history? If we really want to solve the problem, that is; both help victims heal and also help society avoid fallout from unhealed victims of abuse who become perpetrators, if we really want to solve that, shouldn't we be taking a different tack than shaking our fingers at some construct we carelessly call racially bad parenting? Why do we expect that people who are abused will universally not be harmed by it and never pass on that environment to their children, even subconsciously?
Don't we instead need to stop normalizing violence in these groups? Provide safe places to re-normalize non-violence, safety, education?
Whatever the steps are to help abused children heal from their trauma and reduce the odds of them retaining those behaviors as normal, whatever those steps are, have they ever been offered for healing of the black American experience?
Anyway, that said...
It is said in studies that one of the strongest risk indicators for abusers (of many kinds) is childhood abuse. That people who grow up in terrible environments are likely to repeat the thing that was normalized to them. Not everyone of course, because this is not genetic (hence my claim that this is not actually about race, yet race becomes a proxy) and some people who grow up in abuse are able to get whatever help is necessary to break the cycle. That could be family support elsewhere, it could be decent schooling that provides some counseling or escape. It could be certain circumstances that normalize some _other_ behavior, such as a normal uncle's house as refuge, a dedicated teacher, a job with a fostering boss, or even a place and time that allows safe internal contemplation for balance, etc. But for a large portion of people who commit abuse and violence and inappropriate response, they grew up in normalized abuse.
It is given that most of the people in America who are black have some group history of receiving abuse.
Those who were brought to America as slaves of course received constant daily degradation, some with brutal physical abuse. Others with brutal emotional abuse such as the taking of children and selling them away. This exists a mere 3-8 generations back depending on how old one currently is. My own grandfather was born in the 1800s and he was in my house as I was growing up, so the direct link between the behaviors he grew up with from parents who were alive during slavery were told with only a single remove to me as I grew up. In many families, this grandparent influence is strong, thus shrinking the distance of history. Other families have shorter generations and hence my number of 3-8. These abused people had children and reared them. And isn't it expected that an environment tainted by abuse will exist in that next generation's childhood?
Even closer is the also real abuse of the Jim Crow era, the segregation of the military, schools, jobs opportunities that occurred throughout the first part of the 20th century. These things are current for many people alive, and are therefore present in the racial collective as both personal experience and the direct experience of caregivers. Lynchings, systemic racial robberies, social and police abuse.
And the current abuse is still real for certain segments of that American black population. Many people who are black in America have experienced it, but definitely some more than others; typically urban populations have more constant and more violent experiences at the hands of police, even when they have done nothing at all wrong.
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Now we ask, WHY do some people see a "racial behavior" that they claim is "inferior"? Is this not precisely the same question as WHY do we see common behaviors of people who were abused as children? Not universal, obviously, but strongly correlated?
Rather than account for differences in socio-economic status, what would we find if we "accounted for" differences in experience of abusive practices?
And then shouldn't we ask, WHY do we blame the victims of abuse for not knowing how and when to seek the help necessary to break the cycle?
Why are we asking, "where are their parents" (e.g. Baltimore Riots) when the parents are also victims of the same cycle? How are those parents going to magically change history? If we really want to solve the problem, that is; both help victims heal and also help society avoid fallout from unhealed victims of abuse who become perpetrators, if we really want to solve that, shouldn't we be taking a different tack than shaking our fingers at some construct we carelessly call racially bad parenting? Why do we expect that people who are abused will universally not be harmed by it and never pass on that environment to their children, even subconsciously?
Don't we instead need to stop normalizing violence in these groups? Provide safe places to re-normalize non-violence, safety, education?
Whatever the steps are to help abused children heal from their trauma and reduce the odds of them retaining those behaviors as normal, whatever those steps are, have they ever been offered for healing of the black American experience?