Can you elaborate on your statement "only by the basis of white privilege..."
Also, how do you consider not being a minority (read: not the correct race) to not be discrimination on the basis of my race?
Your ice cream example makes no sense to me whatsoever.
i'll address this in reverse order, since the answer to the second helps inform the answer to the first.
say you go into an ice cream store, and you look at the selection, and you decide that you want chocolate.
deciding that you want chocolate isn't discriminating against the other flavors - you are not victimizing the other flavors of ice cream by having a specific desire for one particular flavor, nor are you making a statement about the value or worth or merits of any of the other flavors by having a preference for the flavor that you want.
i think that this example is analogous to your original story, because by the details you provided this isn't a case where the board founder went "man, fuck you honky, we don't want no pale ass mutha fuckahs", but rather it had been determined before hand that they were specifically seeking a minority for that particular remaining seat/post.
also keeping in mind that in this country, there is a definite and undeniable fact that transcends questions of racial politics: ethnic minorities have a different experience with life in the US than whites do, on a fundamental and institutional level, in most if not all aspects of their day to day life - this means that ethnic minorities have an experience in this country that white people simply cannot understand or relate to (the best we can do is empathize with it), and that is quite frankly a unique qualification that no white person can ever have.
if you're running a marijuana store and you want to get input from different ethnic and cultural communities in order to have a broader understanding of how those communities interact with the various forces at work in such a business (ie: perceptions of pot, experience with the police, levels of anxiety about the idea of being able to purchase, etc), then simply being an ethnic minority and thus having lived through that experience is a valid and useful form of job qualification.
which leads to the second point...
it's only by a massive sense of white privilege and entitlement that you could turn "we are looking to fill this one seat with a minority in order to have a cross-section of ethnic diversity" into "THA WHITE MAN IS BEING OPPRESSED!"
it's only by the automatic assumption that you "should" get the seat by default that you can then conclude that your failure to get it is discrimination against you.
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if she had not said they were looking for a non-white person to fill the position, would you still see it as discrimination?
If race is a factor in what she was looking for then it's discrimination, period. The races involved don't matter.
except for the part where this is categorically wrong and displays a comical lack of understanding on your part of what the word "discrimination" means in the context being presented in this thread.
also, how fucking hilarious is it that the people gnashing their teeth about how racism in this country is over because Obama are the same people crying about how racist this story is?