Technically speaking God doesnt "command" anyone to believe that He exists.
Everyone is born atheist. To believe in any God, you have to be told about God by other human beings. Even if there is some experience of being part of the universe, something transcendent, a kind of awareness of something ineffable to our existence, like some traditions might call Great Spirit or the like, without imposing human traits or constructs onto the idea. But a specific God story, such as Christianity,
cannot exist without humans telling the story to other humans, and the rest is ordinary human social dynamics and psychology and behavior.
Saved / Unsaved. Elect / Damned. True Christian / Heretic. This is a contentious, controversial doctrine. Technically, ALL of US are sinners. All of us are judged by our actions and whats in our heart.
You may have been indoctrinated with such inhumane and depraved ideas about human nature, but that doesn't make it true. ANY human being, especially children, can be manipulated into feeling shame based on nothing they have actually done or anything about them at all. This is the basis of religious shaming. There is no inherent "guilt" or "sin" or other such bullshit. We're complex, highly intelligent social mammals and we are part of a vast and possibly incomprehensible universe. That's all you can say for sure. Cultures throughout history have all had their own origin stories and folklore about the nature of human existence. The one you were taught just happens to be particularly inhumane and depraved.
ALL of US are judged by OTHER HUMAN BEINGS, if we are judged at all. I've never seen God judge anyone and neither have you. But we've all seen HUMAN BEINGS judge each other. We may suck at it sometimes and often we don't know about someone's wrongdoing, but we are the only ones who judge each other.
Every single case of pervert pastors abusing children or other abuses where they were held accountable, it was OTHER HUMAN BEINGS who judged their actions as wrongdoing and held them accountable, if they were ever held accountable at all. And often is it secular society that has to step in and stop the abuse because religious doctrine tends to create communities that do not question authority figures, that believe the myth that God will stop the abuse, that are willing to blame victims, and so sometimes abusive authority figures go unaccountable until more human beings find out and eventually hold them accountable. OTHER. HUMAN. BEINGS.
...3. Doubt is a sin. Questioning God or the human authority figures or the authorized religious texts is, at best, strongly frowned upon. (Seriously, try this out. Ask some hard questions of "liberal" Christians and see just how quickly that claim to be open to questioning turns to anger and defensiveness.) The very things that might have the power to mitigate authoritarianism and extremism, critical thinking and willingness to question anything, including authority figures and texts, are specifically not allowed. Even the most supposedly open minded Christian communities have very short limits on actual questioning.
Again, this is not orthodoxy. Blind acceptance of dogma presented by people who cant rationally justify that dogma is NOT theologically sound. Nor is it mandated by scripture.
The bible tells me to test all things...to beware of other/vain philosophies.
Beware of = Be Aware of.

IF ONLY such lip service had the power to mitigate all the visceral messages that hijack fear and prejudice. IF ONLY.
...4. The group identity. The religious identity is more valuable than the human identity. The most basic group identity a human being can hold is simply being human. Understanding this helps to see the world as "we are all in this together" and not really separate.
True. And I would argue that where the bible says..."For God so loved The World" that this means everyone.
The Gospel is intended for ALL nations.
Yet no human being could ever possibly know about this unless OTHER HUMAN BEINGS tell them about it. God is a story. At least, the Christian God is a story, as well as most, if not all, other God stories human beings have invented.
... But, again, just point out to a Christian that the label "Christian" is only a human construct and couldn't possibly equate to God his own self, and they will likely agree it's just a label and not god. Then ask them if they are willing to drop the label or even condemn the label in order to take power away from ordinary human tribalistic behavior that Christianity has consistently brought to the world throughout its history, which surely is not God the Almighty but human fallibility, and they will not be able to separate the tribal label from their self righteous belief in a supposedly morally superior God.
See Luke 15:7 (1 lost sheep or 99 saved?) See Galatians 3:28. (There is neither Jew nor Gentile) See Luke 10:30 (The Good Samaritan / Who is my neighbor)
Why would I give a shit what a book written by humans says? Like every other scriptural religion, those are ideas that cannot exist without human beings thinking them up and writing them down to varying levels of factuality.
...I could go on if anyone is interested...
Yes I am.
Okie doke, in a subsequent post.
...I think just these basics make it clear that in order for Christianity to become something that actually reinforces and inspires human goodness and not reinforce our stupidest and meanest animal brain behaviors, you'd have to reform it into something that no longer resembles Christianity, and Christianity is an ideological virus that is well equipped to stick around.
It is said - partly with a dose of deliberate irony - that Jesus came to bring us the Kingdom of God and all we got was the church. I think you are right call out the misalignment between the human goodness which Jesus reinforces and inspires - that which is in the Prodigal son's DNA - and the ugly opposite we see in stupid, mean, sinful behaviour. And I think you are right that its a matter of "reform". But as Jesus said, reform starts with removing the log from our own eye.
You can make up any scripture or interpretation that appeals to your animal brain urges and ego and fears and desires and satisfying to your established beliefs, and there is nothing within Christianity that has the power to mitigate stupid, mean, ugly behavior. If you're not stupid, mean, or ugly in your actions or your regard for your fellow human beings, then congrats, your ordinary humanness is morally superior to Christianity and/or you simply have not been exposed to the environment or conditions that can bring out any latent stupidity and meanness in you in lieu of the skills and defenses that might mitigate bad behavior and zealotry.
Ordinary ignorance is morally neutral, but it's fertile ground for just about anything to grow in it if you're unaware of what's good to grow and what's not. Without certain care and maintenance, any monster weed or poison can grow there, like in the absence of critical thinking skills (as in small children) any religious mumbo jumbo convoluted fear mongering can easily grow.
Also, while it's true that humans tend to criticize others before themselves, just the fact that someone is criticizing you or your beliefs doesn't mean they should not call you out for it or become perfect themselves before they should speak up about atrocious and inhumane ideology.
...At best, the most liberal strains of Christianity are merely latent or dormant until the all too common conditions arise for it to blossom into its fullest destructive, inhumane nature.
Religion itself is a human artifact. It is neither God nor a human being, and thus needs no protection or defense and has no rights. There is no reason not to honestly and rigorously question any aspect of it. Your humanness is much more real and valuable than a stupid religious identity.
Agreed.
Under the right conditions, you would have no problem seeing me punished or killed by some self righteous authority figure in your ideological group.
You can't name one good thing that a human can say or do that can't be said or done without religion, but you can name a thousand terrible, inhumane, evil things said or done because of religion. (I believe it is Christopher Hitchens that I am paraphrasing here.)
I think you should answer that question or shut the fuck up with your moralizing and preaching and promotion of inhumane, irrational, and ghoulish beliefs.