We've all been suckered at one time or other. Scams, cons, fabrications, distortions, and outright lies are everywhere. There isn't a group, organization, club, church, temple, mosque, synagogue, business, or government agency that's above pulling the wool over your eyes. Many lies if believed are relatively harmless, but other lies if believed can be expensive, disastrous or even deadly. What can you do to defend yourself from being bamboozled?
A point I've made over the years is to learn to think critically. Thinking critically involves using valid logic and supporting evidence to judge the credibility of a claim. If the claim seems unreasonable or is lacking in substance, then it's probably not true. Here's a short and incomplete list of common tactics used by con artists that violate valid reasoning or lack supporting evidence:
A point I've made over the years is to learn to think critically. Thinking critically involves using valid logic and supporting evidence to judge the credibility of a claim. If the claim seems unreasonable or is lacking in substance, then it's probably not true. Here's a short and incomplete list of common tactics used by con artists that violate valid reasoning or lack supporting evidence:
- Emotional Appeals: The scammer will use emotion to try to get you to believe the claim. They'll tell you they love and care about you. They have compassion and want to ease your pain.
- Abuse: It may seem counterintuitive, but scammers will often abuse those they would scam. If you doubt them, for example, then they'll try to make you feel guilty for doing so. Your doubting them or disagreeing with them in their estimation makes you evil or deranged or stupid. This practice is commonly known as "gaslighting."
- All Talk and No Substance: Con artists tend to talk up a storm, but, of course, there's never any delivery on the substance of their promise(s). If you ask for evidence for their claims, then they'll typically become defensive and express outrage that you should dare to seek confirmation of what they're saying.
- Group Think: Scammers tend to surround themselves with other likeminded scammers in tightknit groups to lend an appeal to popularity. The message is that so many people cannot be wrong.
- Disappearing Acts: Time for con artists is valuable, and if you turn out to be an unlikely prospect for the con, the con artists will likely disappear. There are bigger fish to fry!