Brian63
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On different message boards across this Internet-thing, so often when religious and secular people debate each other on various issues, you can see a behavior in both sides that seems a little disappointing, but also really awkward especially whenever it comes from the religious folks. Namely, people try to write their posts and speak to each other in a very argumentative, confrontational, demeaning, belittling, and insulting way towards the other side. It is not just that different people have different views and opinions on the subject, but we can all debate the issues with good charity in mind towards the other, have discussions that are mutually helpful and enlightening, and even fun for everyone. Instead, they have to try and insult the people who have different opinions, “poison the well” against them, and ridicule them for being stupid and/or dishonest.
I think there are various psychological, social, and evolutionary explanations for that behavior for every person on every side of every issue. However, when Christians in particular engage in it, in addition it also seems blatantly contradictory to their own beliefs. Jesus is constantly promoted as being a really super-nice and caring and kind guy that we should all try to emulate in our own behavior. “What would Jesus do?” is a common catchphrase they use when trying to decide some ethical dilemma. We will all fall short of his perfection, but at least we can try, and we should all still try to aim ourselves in the same direction as him, even if we do not get as far on the road as he would.
However, those same Christians argue in a way that is very hostile and insulting towards secularists. And if you point that out to them, they will not apologize for their behavior and admit they were inappropriate and wrong but will try to do better in the future and behave more like Jesus would. Instead, they will try to *justify* their aggressive behavior. They will make excuses and rationalizations for their behavior, and then continue on with that behavior. When I have debated some very conservative Christians years ago on one of their discussion boards, so many of them would write very brief comments or posts that offered nothing contributory to the discussion or any kind of substance at all. Instead, they were purely rhetorical jabs at me, intended to provoke me into getting angry and hostile towards them. They were trolling me.
So on the one hand they try to argue that the appropriate behavior for all humans (including themselves) is to at least try to be very giving, compassionate, and charitable towards each other. But then, they also try to argue and rationalize and justify their own insulting, uncharitable, and demeaning behavior as being the appropriate behavior for themselves to engage in.
I am so glad to be an atheist. We can make worldviews that are much more consistent, reasonable, sensible, and capable of progressing than theists. They have to try and reconcile their static contradictory doctrines with each other, try to justify their own self-contradictory behavior to a great extent…and have to figure out a way to interpret a story about a TALKING SNAKE as being a literal description of something that really happened in history.
Brian
I think there are various psychological, social, and evolutionary explanations for that behavior for every person on every side of every issue. However, when Christians in particular engage in it, in addition it also seems blatantly contradictory to their own beliefs. Jesus is constantly promoted as being a really super-nice and caring and kind guy that we should all try to emulate in our own behavior. “What would Jesus do?” is a common catchphrase they use when trying to decide some ethical dilemma. We will all fall short of his perfection, but at least we can try, and we should all still try to aim ourselves in the same direction as him, even if we do not get as far on the road as he would.
However, those same Christians argue in a way that is very hostile and insulting towards secularists. And if you point that out to them, they will not apologize for their behavior and admit they were inappropriate and wrong but will try to do better in the future and behave more like Jesus would. Instead, they will try to *justify* their aggressive behavior. They will make excuses and rationalizations for their behavior, and then continue on with that behavior. When I have debated some very conservative Christians years ago on one of their discussion boards, so many of them would write very brief comments or posts that offered nothing contributory to the discussion or any kind of substance at all. Instead, they were purely rhetorical jabs at me, intended to provoke me into getting angry and hostile towards them. They were trolling me.
So on the one hand they try to argue that the appropriate behavior for all humans (including themselves) is to at least try to be very giving, compassionate, and charitable towards each other. But then, they also try to argue and rationalize and justify their own insulting, uncharitable, and demeaning behavior as being the appropriate behavior for themselves to engage in.
I am so glad to be an atheist. We can make worldviews that are much more consistent, reasonable, sensible, and capable of progressing than theists. They have to try and reconcile their static contradictory doctrines with each other, try to justify their own self-contradictory behavior to a great extent…and have to figure out a way to interpret a story about a TALKING SNAKE as being a literal description of something that really happened in history.
Brian


