No, I think fantasy is pretty silly. When I try to figure out what the metaphors it's mostly conservative racist and sexist tripe. I'm aware there are stuff that isn't. But I haven't found any. So I'm open to being wrong.
oh dear god.... yeah. there is so much out there that is not that, but i totally see where you're coming from because a lot of fantasy is that and a lot of idiots really like a lot of fantasy that is like that.
if you're willing to put some faith into the suggestion of a random person on the internet, there is some AMAZING fantasy out there right now that is not bound to the ridiculous story tripe of LOTR-cloning nor shackled to the backwards social thinking that is so endemic to older fantasy, nor endless recycled cliches of sword-and-sorcery jesus metaphor bullshit.
The Lightbringer series by Brent Weeks - this is probably the best fiction of any medium being produced right now. it's in the 3rd book of a planned 4 book series, the next one being due out late next year.
the black prism, the blinding knife, the broken eye - all should be in paperback, and cheap, and are SO GOOD OH MY GOD WHY ARE THESE BOOKS SO GOD DAMN GOOD!?
pretty much anything and everything written by Brandon Sanderson is awesome, especially his Mistborn trilogy and The Way of Kings series, which is only 2 books in but it's awesome.
patrick rothfuss is a ground-breaking master in the art of telling long sprawling stories in which absolutely NOTHING happens and it's the most amazing shit you've ever read in your life.
the name of the wind, and the wise man's fear are both utterly incredible and not a single thing happens, and it's really weird and kind of confusing but in a really cool way.
peter brett is a new author with a great little series that is fantastic in the tradition of light, faced-paced action fantasy but with a good story behind it and good characters, called the demon cycle.
the warded man, the desert spear, the daylight war, the skull throne are the first 4 books in what i think is planning to be a 5 or 6 book series.
also he's not sci-fi or fantasy, but i've been reading the complete works of Christopher Moore lately and it's brilliant stuff - great absurdist fiction, if i had to compare it to something i'd say douglas adams or neil gaiman... not like either of those two, but i mean if i had to try and give a genre to relate it to, it would be that sort of thing.