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ESPN commentator's words and tweets about the Ray Rice incident

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Stephen A Smith has mostly stepped in about the recent beating that Ray Rice inflicted on his then Fiance, Janay Palmer. Then he foolishly seemed to double down on twitter.



The most boiled down video comment about this is from BroTheDude:
Can a woman provoke a man into hitting her? Yes. Is that an acceptable excuse for hitting a woman? No.

I would add that a man who can be provoked by a woman still needs the correct measures of punishment and rehabilitation on a case by case basis.

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There MAY be small level of truth and applicability (once he more carefully parses his thoughts) to general life of what he said. But tactically, there is so little reward and so much risk about the angle he took that everybody else wisely treats it like a third rail.

First of all I want to separate what happens in this exact Ray Rice case from the wide realm of possibilities in life in general for how violence actually happens (or is falsely stated to happen) by men against the women they are in relationships with. It very well may be that Ray Rice is a total asshole who gets offended as easily as Joe Pesci in GoodFellas, who knows.

Stephen A. Smith's job is to talk ad nauseum about the topic of the day and to come up with his own insights. In his level of foresight and circumspection about how his comments will be taken he is totally overmatched by Skip Bayless.

As far as provocation is concerned, a woman intensely verbally attacking (low-blow stuff) a man or slapping and spitting at him should at MOST be responded with walking away and as mild a push out of the way as possible if his path is impeded by her. That or a bear hug restraint if you are in a close quarters and the kicking and scratching won't stop without it - like in the Jay-Z/Solange situation (though he took the blows and we laud him for it).
 
I don't recall anyone saying with respect to Aaron Hernandez "Hey, killing is wrong, but we have to remember that we have a right to self-defense and it is important to remember that we shouldn't provoke people into shooting you."
 
An update is that he has been suspended for a week.

He also apologized on air for his comments - and it was a real "I screwed up" apology, and not one of those "I'm sorry if some people took what I said the wrong way" asshole ones.

As far as I care, that pretty much settled the matter.
 
Maybe this is what Stephen A. Smith though happened:



I like this comment by Snowgoon:

This actually happened to me while I was in high school. School's about over, i'm with a group of people talking and apparently I said or did something to make this chick (that beforehand I was cool with) mad. To this day I still don't know what it was but that's irrelevant. She flipped, started yelling in my face and begged me to fight her like this girl. I'm like "I'm not gonna hit a girl" and she's like "i'm a nigga, fight me like a nigga...". She's pushing me and shit, I try to walk away and she's following me, still pushing on me trying to goad me into fighting. Now I know I could beat her ass if I wanted to (and I sure as hell did want to), she knew it too, but she wanted to be the victim like the girl in this video. She wanted to get somebody to fuck me up, like the girl in this video. She wanted a reason to have her friends, brother, boyfriend to jump me. This is the only way. Since I wasn't backed into a wall like this guy I just kept walking till she gave up and left me alone. I saw past her shit. Yeah I was known as "the nigga that got punked down by a girl" (which made me want to fuck her up even more), but even if I did fight her, I would have been known as "the nigga that laid his hands on a girl", and would have had to fight a Mortal Kombat ladder of ignorant ass white knights. It's a lose-lose either way. This story is just one of the many instances that shaped my hatred of society.
 
Let me get Socrates on this and ask if there should be a criminal sanction for what the woman in the video was doing before she walked away and then came back and attacked him. Something like verbal assault or misdemeanor provocation?

Her quote: "hit me so I can get somebody to fuck you up"
 
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