jab
Veteran Member
I do get what you're saying but as a woman, it is not flattering to have any reference to your sex, your gender or your body parts or functions as an insult, even when it a vulgar term obviously being applied towards a male person. Just like it's really a bit ugly to hear that someone 'throws like a girl' as an insult.
I'm not trying to dissuade you from using whatever terms you'd like to use. I'm just saying that it's a bit offensive in a minor way.
And yet, i was taught to use the word by a woman who was jealous at how much was expressed by masculine parts. A dick, a prick, having [enough] balls, having a hard-on for spelling issues, and so on...
yes there are self-hating women, at least one of whom you met-- also perhaps Melania Trump, whom you said should be in prison for the crimes he (her husband) has committed..