I understand that. The problem is to find the balance between taking care of those children and not incentivising people to have children they can't afford.
You may think that by not supporting these children through child tax credits and the like you may dissuade other parents from making poor decisions, but is it worth those children being neglected?
My point was that people like the woman in OP already have access to many government benefits yet she is still whining and demanding more. In addition to SNAP, WIC etc. she also gets thousands in tax benefits. Let's go through them:
- a person with 2 dependent children gets $7,900 in federal tax exemptions for those children. That makes her taxable income, if she makes $20k, pretty much 0 when you add exemption for her and the standard deduction.
- a person with 2 dependent children making $20k gets $5,300 in EITC.
- a person with 2 dependent children making $20k gets $2000 in child tax credit.
The latter two are "refundable", meaning that they can (and in the case of low income people most definitely do) result in a negative tax rate, or getting more in tax refund than one has paid in withholdings. In her case she gets more than $7k in free money from the IRS.
Those pretty generous tax benefits were not even acknowledged (she even shamelessly calls herself a "taxpayer") in the pity-piece in the OP.