ruby sparks
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I'm happy I could help to bust a myth.
No prob. Just note that I am not going to, as you might say, 'swing the other way' just yet or on the basis of two studies and/or some brief googling. I don't think that would be warranted. I have my rational skepticism standards you know. Lol. Plus, I have seen a few documentaries suggesting it's far from rosy in the garden in the porn industry. So I'll keep an open mind, but don't mind admitting that it seems to be the case that nowadays, many porn actors, at least in certain countries or circumstances, are at least as happy with their job as most people. And that's good.
It's also double standards regarding this. When it comes to sex workers (porn performers and prostitutes) we demand that they love every second of their working day. Otherwise they're exploited victims. In the world in general it's precious few people who love their jobs. For a lot of people your job is something they suffer through just to be able to enjoy their weekends. I remember having a job as a salesman, selling kitchen wear. That job was truly soul-destroying. Sometimes life isn't fun. It usually isn't for anyone.
Agreed.
Since two years I live in Copenhagen. In Denmark prostitution is legalised. It's extremely normalised in this society. As a result women who work as prostitutes can be open about it, with very little stigma. I've ended up at parties here talking to women who work as prostitutes and are comfortable chatting about it. It turns out that they're normal people with the same kind of worries and issues as people in general. What a shocker!
Yes.
Prostitution may be a slightly different thing though (even if there's overlap). That said, when I was googling for stuff on porn actors, I came across (pun intended) a newspaper report of a small study (on sex workers) done in Leeds, UK:
The majority of sex workers enjoy their job - why should we find that surprising?
https://www.independent.co.uk/voice...-should-we-find-that-surprising-10083175.html
I am happy to have an open mind and to have incorrect assumptions of mine corrected, but I admit I am a bit wary, lest I gloss over or under-appreciate certain issues, such as coercion (very evident in one of the documentaries I referred to above, about a UK woman going to USA to get into porn films), trafficking, drug addiction and so on. Also, it's fine and valid that you tend to cite Denmark/Scandinavia, but the situations may differ, in a variety of ways, from country to country.
What the scene in Denmark and perhaps a few other places suggests is that once the societal stigma declines, many of the issues decline along with that, probably because societal attitudes are a big part of the problem. I'm not going to guess what proportion.
There's just so many liberal myths about sex work all geared toward seeing them all as victims in need of saving. As there are myths on the other side about all sex workers being happy.
Sure. I like busting myths. Even my own if necessary.
I keep thinking this detour away from the OP deserves its own thread, but I am a bit busy today to start one. Apologies to anyone who feels annoyed that I'm disrupting a thread.
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