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Rep. Omar describes a bruising life in her new memoir - StarTribune.com
About her second husband,Omar's book fills in details of her life in Somalia before the country's government collapsed in 1991, forcing her family to flee. Her extended family, populated with teachers and civil servants, had been living what she describes as a comfortable middle-class existence at a compound in Mogadishu, "filled with African art, books of history, Somali poetry and music."
Unlike the experiences of many other Third World refugees, hers was not a life of destitute poverty.
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Omar, now 37, pins her political awakening to her early 20s. But as described in a chapter titled "Early Midlife Crisis," it was also a turbulent time when she split from Hirsi for the first time, married another man, enrolled in North Dakota State University, impulsively shaved her head, and suffered debilitating headaches.
She has what might seem like a strange taste in heroes. She describes British Prime Minister Margaret Thatcher as "my greatest hero."Omar writes no more about how she met Elmi or why they decided to marry. But by 2016, when she was running for state Legislature, she writes that the brief marriage was spun by a Somali blog into an allegation "that I had married a relative [reportedly her brother] illegally, to get him entry into the United States" — which isn't true, she writes.
"That Somalis were some of my harshest critics might seem absurd. But they refused to accept me because I refused to kiss the ring," Omar writes. She credits her father, now retired after a decade as a postal worker, for refusing pressure from Somali elders to push her out of her first political race.
Despite vast political differences, Omar writes that she loves Thatcher's "Iron Lady" style, revealing that her father once gave her the same nickname: "Without any kind of special invitation or connections, time and time again she showed up in rooms filled with men and didn't have to do much to lead them to decide that she should be in charge."