On the other hand, Americone Dream is a much cheaper alternative.
Well if you call something a "dream" USA Today is dreaming way too small. If on the other hand we are talking about a comfortable middle class existence then they are off base in the other direction.
Many US real estate markets have plenty of good houses on offer that are <<$275,000. Why does it have to be a new house? Plenty of preexisting houses around that are just as good or better. Also size does matter. Large houses with many bedrooms are not necessary unless you have a lot of children. And may I suggest that condos are perfect for many people, cost less than comparable detached houses and are cheaper to own as well.
Same with cars. Do you really need a new "Chelsea tractor"? $11k in costs for a vehicle is way too high for most people - what did they base it on? Porsche Cayenne?
Otoh, most families will have two vehicles but even so total cost should be under $10k for both of them even if they are still payments owed on both (which is stupid in most cases).
Neither do you have to spend $3.6k on restaurants or $3k on TV, internet and cell phones, $4.5k for vacations and $3.6k for "entertainment" presumably not included in the previous categories.
If you can't afford it it is not necessary to fund your children's college fund or your retirement plan to the statutory maximum.
And so on.