Jarhyn
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- Natural Philosophy, Game Theoretic Ethicist
I tend to think that if you make a cake with one shape for one customer, you should be willing to make a second cake for a second customer with substantially similar needs.
That said, refusing to make a cake at all for a couple because THEY are gay, and refusing to make a cake in a specific shape that a person objects with. I can't tell an artist that they must draw me a piece of gay pornography simply because they work on comission. But I can say they must not refuse my commission only because I myself happen to be gay.
It is a fine line but important. A baker may refuse to make a gay cake, but may not refuse to make a cake for gays. Similarly a baker may refuse to make a hate cake, but not refuse to make a cake for hateful people.
Agreed. They should be free to approve the form of the message but not the exact details.
Take a cake that says "Adam & Eve forever". Fundamentally, this is "<name> & <name> forever"--substituting "Steve" for "Eve" doesn't change this. Make both or make neither.
That doesn't mean they need to make "Adam hates Steve"--but if they refuse that they should also refuse "Adam hates Eve".
Except that in this particular situation, (and believe me, as a gay man who got married, I wish I could ethically say otherwise), they deserve the right to not say 'Adam and Steve' because to them, it is just as disgusting as saying '(name) hates (name)'
But it is not disgusting to not put any names on the cake. they make cakes without names on them, and ostensibly they ought remain blind to what happens to the cake outside their doors. The cake here is a deservedly neutral product. There's really no real basis to disallow 'x hated y' and allow 'x loves y' since the middle term isn't the source of the distaste. It is the overall identity of the result.