Yea, I think that you're right here. I think that he intended to force his daughter to go to Iraq. Then she ran away, rebelled. She stood up for herself, and defied him. Then he saw her, and then absolutely snapped. I do think that he would have killed her if not for the good samaratians and her boyfriend. To me, it should have been attempted 2nd degree murder; perhaps attempted manslaughter. For god sakes, the state should be investigating his competency (and his cookey wife) to raise their remaining daughters, who could also be in great danger.