Articles written by feminists are sufficient for the most part, but only if you actually read them and make an honest effort at understanding the opinion being expressed.
I understand their opinions all too well. They are quite clear in their disdain for the due process for those accused of rape and think demanding evidence is tantamount to reraping the "victim". They also try to explain away any incosistenices (or outright lies) with the effects of "trauma" thus claiming that there is no way to falsify a rape allegation.
You don't have to agree with them. You might reject their arguments entirely. You might think their proposals are dangerous, foolish, stupid, or worse.
I'll take all of the above, Alex!
But as a member once put it on another board "First understand, then criticize. Not the other way around." You have to actually read the articles, in full, not just the quote mines somebody else found for you. You have to make the effort to understand the point he author is making, not just assume you already know just by reading the title. If you're not a guy who would read feminist writings, then you're not a guy who knows what he's talking about when he posts about them.
Treatises are longer works. Life is too short to read drivel in such a long form. Articles, like those I posted about radical feminists (one of them a male 5th columnist!) defending the false (and utterly discredited) accuser in the UVA case, Jackie Coakley. I read those articles in full and they are disgusting.
It's the Jessica Valenti article you keep referring to, about the murky legal area surrounding consensual sex that becomes non-consensual mid act.
No it's not the article I keep referring to. She writes many articles, you know. This one is less vile than most, because she at least acknowledges the possibility that the accused is innocent, probably because of his left-wing bona fides. But in other articles she for example defends the notion that burden of proof should be reversed for rape or that rape accusers should be believed automatically.
You keep ignoring an important difference between the male and female Amherst students.
How could I forget the first tenet of matriarchy!
Only one of them was alleged to have used force.
There was no evidence he used force. Instead, we have evidence she described the encounter as her fucking him.
You obviously don't believe the female.
I both believe and disbelieve her, just like you and others on here. But I believe her initial words to her friend, that she fucked the male student while he was drunk enough to be puking.
Given your frequently expressed opinions about the reliability of women's testimony, I'm sure this comes as no surprise to anyone who has been reading your posts for more than a week.
It is not the reliability of a woman's testimony that I question per se, but the sufficiency of any testimony by the accuser in the absence of other evidence (or even in light of existence of exculpatory evidence). Other evidence should be needed. The feminist position is that in questions of rape, a woman's testimony should be enough to get a male punished. I strongly object to that.
But the disciplinary board accepted her testimony as true and accurate, and acted accordingly.
Given the rules that set burden of proof irresponsibly low, rules that severely limit ability of the accused to defend himself, the political pressure colleges are under to increase the rate of expulsions and the likely ideological makeup of the "disciplinary board" that outcome is hardly surprising. But it has no relationship whatsoever with the veracity of her allegations.
Maybe they got it right, maybe they didn't.
Should a man's life be ruined just because he is "maybe" guilty? What happened to "in dubio pro reo"?
But there is a perfectly understandable reason why the board would not have treated them the same, it is contained in the article you posted, and ignoring it doesn't make it go away.
Yes, she has a vagina and women "don't lie about rape".
Yes, he did nothing wrong. She had sex with him while he was drunk.
You haven't posted a single case where there was no allegation of a violation of college or university rules.
She is the one who had sex with a drunk student. But because she is female and he male, he gets treated like a rapist and she as a victim even though she admitted she fucked him.
You haven't shown a single instance where expulsion was not a possible consequence for the behavior a student was alleged to have committed.
Possible consequence. Alleged to have committed. A lot of hedging to defend an indefensible system.
And even if he did violate some arcane rule that majority of other students also violate (like have sex with a person not totally sober) she did the same, and he was much drunker than she. Yet he gets expelled and not her. Because she has a vagina and that gets her automatic victim points.
You have posted one case where the ruling was overturned on appeal (UND). In all the others, the disciplinary board found sufficient cause to expel the student who was expelled.
There are many other very dubious cases - Occidental, Vassar, UGA to name a few. That they
found sufficient cause has no relationship whether there actually was sufficient cause because these tribunals are driven by ideology, not facts.
The question is, are males being expelled at higher rates than females who are found to have committed the same offenses? That's the crux of your argument, and that's where your evidence is lacking.
Yes they are. I know of no case of a female student expelled for having sex with a male student who has been drinking even in cases like Amherst and Occidental.
Both the Amherst and the Occidental College cases involve sex between drunk students. One involved an allegation of forcible sex, while the other definitely involved sex with a minor (yes, I know, she was almost 18 but we're talking about Codes of Conduct and state laws; it matters that she was under the age of legal consent). But if all things had been equal and the genders reversed, would the outcome have been different?
The allegation of force in Amherst is not backed by any evidence and is contradicted by the accuser's own words (that she fucked the accused).
For the use of force, I don't think so. That sort of behavior will get anyone booted pretty damn quick. For the sex with a minor, I think probably yes. I've already said I think the Occidental College incident looks like gender bias. But I don't have evidence it is, and I don't think you do, either.
Mere allegation of use of force should not get anyone booted. Anybody can falsely accuse anybody of use of force. The burden of proof should not be on the accused, but in Amherst case we even have exculpatory evidence in the form of the accuser admitting that she fucked the accused.
All you've done in the part I put behind HIDE tags (for the sake of keeping this post manageable) is repeat your unsupported claims about widespread misandry. You have not established that gender bias is prevalent in college disciplinary boards. Merely pointing to the number of men being expelled does not prove anything. Correlation is not causation.
This is an internet discussion forum, not a dissertation. I have shown cases of dubious expulsions (including cases where only the man is punished when both are engaged in same behavior like drunken sex) and feminists clamoring of more on even less evidence every time a man is not expelled following an accusation.
A single case that might be gender bias is a start. Now you have to find another.
Amherst, UGA, Vassar, UND. Even the initial response to the case-that-shall-not-be-named (as feminists are allergic to the very name!) was dripping in anti-male sexism.
Not just a case where a woman was believed and a man wasn't. You need a case like the Occidental College one where both male and female students committed the same offenses but received different punishments.
Amherst fits because there is no evidence he ever used force and in fact there is evidence she was the driving force behind the sex (presumably because he was so drunk).
UGA, Vassar and UND also fit.
If you can find a pattern of unequal treatment at the same institution, that will make your claim much stronger. If you can find the same pattern repeating among several, that will fully establish your claim. But right now, all you have are guys getting expelled for various violations of college Codes, like using force to compel a continuation of oral sex. That doesn't demonstrate gender bias.
It does if her word is taken as gospel without any evidence (and in fact despite contrary evidence) and when it is ignored that he was much drunker than her. Why not punish her for violating college rules?
Also, I don't see how posting a picture of a moonbat saying "Feminism" helps your argument. I mean really, have you looked at that guy? He looks like his last two functioning brain cells are sharing bong hits.
Well unlike his aliens radical feminists actually exist and are an actual threat. But I just thought it was funny.
I bolded the part of your post that is exactly right. All that matters is that the consent was freely given (no coercion, duress, or other asshattery to extract a yes from someone who is saying no), and that the person was capable of giving it (no falling down I-can't-find-my-dorm drunk or drugged, dazed and confused sex partners).
Yes, whether they are enthusiastic is irrelevant. Whether they are sober is irrelevant.
Successfully tricking Person A into thinking you are Person B in order to have sex with them is rape. He or she didn't consent to having sex with you, they consented to sex with Person B. You can go to prison for that sort of thing.
That's crazy.
Lying about being HIV negative, or about being unmarried, or about being a French underwear model might get you into someone's bed, but it can also get you into a hell of a lot of trouble. You might escape a criminal charge, or you might not. You probable won't escape having to defend yourself in a civil lawsuit if the person you duped is upset enough to pursue one.
I get the HIV part but the rest is just insanity. Do you really think this guy is a rapist?
Or how about Barney Stinson?
Being dumber than a bag of hammers does not make you a rape victim. Also, taken this principle to its conclusion would make majority of people in singles bars (or online dating) rapists, because both men and women tend to fudge, exaggerate or outright lie. Same goes for colleges and stupid "sober" and "affirmative" consent rules.
IMO what needs to happen is for the legal community to 1) determine which standard is the appropriate one under the law, and 2) determine if there's a need to change it.
And that shouldn't be done by an administration letter.
So the first question is this: the Dear Colleague letter states that the law requires colleges to use the preponderance of evidence standard. Is that correct? I'm not asking if this is the standard you prefer. I'm asking if this is what the law requires.
I know most colleges used the stricter and more appropriate "clear and convincing" standard until then. Also, it's not like courts rules on this - it was politically motivated action by the Obama/Biden administration.