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Father of seven now transgender and identifies as a little girl

 
 
 
Hmm, apparently Steph is into age play and has sex with the adoptive "parents".

 
Holy shit, you mean consenting adults are having sex with each other? I don't want to overreact, but it might be time for us to drag this guy out of his house and set him on fire.
 
Everything on the internet is true. If it wasn't, they couldn't put it there.
 
repoman said:
Hmm, apparently Steph is into age play and has sex with the adoptive "parents".
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That actually makes the story less interesting than the original headline in my opinion. If she had a strictly platonic relationship with those adopting the parent role, that seems like it would be a rather rare thing. As a fetish, perhaps it's not super common, but it seems like it would be more common.
 
So, if he identifies as a 6 year old, how can he give consent for sex? Does he think real 6 year olds can consent the same way?

I knew a guy who got caught molesting kids. His reaction -- "It's natural. This is how God made me." People with disorders honestly don't see anything wrong with anything they do. They rationalize their shit, and they call themselves normal.

I'm sorry. This man has a disorder, and such people do not know what consent is or how it is given. I would never let him around my kids.
 
Achwienichtig said:
So, if he identifies as a 6 year old, how can he give consent for sex? Does he think real 6 year olds can consent the same way?
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She doesn't think she is actually six. It's role play for, apparently, sexual and non-sexual reasons.

I knew a guy who got caught molesting kids. His reaction -- "It's natural. This is how God made me." People with disorders honestly don't see anything wrong with anything they do. They rationalize their shit, and they call themselves normal.
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And? What does that have to do with this story?

I'm sorry. This man has a disorder, and such people do not know what consent is or how it is given. I would never let him around my kids.
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On what basis? The fact that she has fetishized sex with other adults? It's not impossible she is a pedophile, but it's not impossible you are a pedophile either. Actually, lots of people who post to internet forums are pedophiles. You post to internet forums. Shit, you're probably a pedophile. Oh fuck, I'm posting on the internet too. I knew a user on a different forum many years ago who was caught harassing underage girls and sending other people child pornography. He denied ever doing it. Pedophiles deny doing it. I bet you and I will deny doing it too (I adamantly deny it). More evidence we should be locked up far away from children! This whole board needs to be shut down. Probably everyone who uses the internet should be registered sex-offenders just to be safe. I don't have kids in my care to protect, though, so maybe you should get on that.
 
OK, so what you're saying is, when I go to look for a baby sitter, and he/she responds to my posting, the information made available in this thread should have no bearing whatsoever on my decision of whom to hire.

ETA: I must have totally missed the point where he said he only does this for sex play. It seemed pretty clear that he also identifies as a six year old when actually playing with six year olds. Am I wrong? Did I miss that?
 
Achwienichtig said:
OK, so what your saying is, when I go to look for a baby sitter, and he/she responds to my posting, the information made available in this thread should have no bearing whatsoever on my decision of whom to hire.
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I don't know what kind of interview you're having where this comes up. If that's what she puts forward herself without you asking, that might be a bit disconcerting. Why would you bring up any form of sex at that time? If you go searching her up on the internet and find out she's into kink? What does that matter? People do lots of weird things, but it doesn't make them pedophiles or negligent towards children.

ETA: I must have totally missed the point where he said he only does this for sex play. It seemed pretty clear that he also identifies as a six year old when actually playing with six year olds. Am I wrong? Did I miss that?
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From the various bits and pieces available, it's probably more like this:
  • She suppressed her gender dysphoria for a very long portion of her life.
  • When she was ready to come out, it didn't go over so well with her wife. Things ended badly. Depression was had. Suicide attempts were made.
  • She decided at some point to embrace being trans, and even found a community which accepts her.
  • She has a job and adult responsibilities. She has a car and a license and is aware of how old she is and the fact that she had a marriage in the past and has children from that marriage.
  • When she role plays being a child, she gets to take a break from thinking about all the shitty things in her life and escape into a more pleasant space where she has less burdens and gets to fulfill some of the desires she never got to fulfill when she actually was a child. Apparently, no more suicide attempts.
  • She does this role play with one couple in particular who acts as her adoptive parents. Sex is involved with these people who are all consenting adults. It's... certainly not typical. I don't entirely get it myself, but I don't think it's important I do.
  • She also spends time with that couple's family and plays with their grandchild as if they were both children. Being six-years-old comes from that grandchild wanting to play the part of the older sister and this transgender woman going along with that.
  • This transgender woman does have issues in life. Most people in life do have at least some issues. She may have more than many. Her coping mechanisms likely appear weird and off putting to many people. 'Coping mechanisms' is my term of choice since I wasn't sure how to condense the things she's said about it herself. That said, she doesn't seem to have major cognitive impairments or anything, though I did get disinterested about halfway through that 'harmful opinions' video. Maybe that guy uncovered something actually menacing and deeply concerning and just chose to spend half the video on the preamble and fetish angle. She could be crazy as fuck, but appearing normal or abnormal doesn't always give us that much insight to the demons in people's heads.

While the above may not be perfectly on the mark, I think it's closer to reality than what you may have been envisioning.
 
Am I so far off the mark?

Earlier you wondered what my knowing a child molester had to do with this particular video. Whelp, I didn't want to go into this, but this particular child molester was a childhood friend of mine whom I knew quite well. Growing up with him, seeing the way he acted, seeing how he normalized his behavior and made everything seem like rainbows and love . . .

Truth is, of course, that I don't know whether Stefonknee is a dangerous individual or not, but I see lots of the same behavior I saw with my friend. It might be that she has found "legitimate" means of coping. What I am saying is, that's not a risk I would take with my kids. Of course I could be wrong, but when you see warning signs, you listen to them, especially when you have kids. Red flags are up.

ETA: Also, how does this not come up during an interview when a man comes in wearing a wig and girls clothing?
 
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