Let's look back at the way the problem was stated...
"A woman is about to give birth to fraternal twins. What is the chance that one of the twins will be a girl?" That was later clarified to mean "at least one."
So leveraging the "socks in a drawer" problem, suppose you have a drawer with an infinite (for the sake of argument) number of black socks and an infinite number of white socks. You reach in, grab, and pull out two socks. What is the probability that you have drawn at least one black sock?
There is one event (drawing two socks) that has three possible outcomes. The three possibilities are that you drew two black socks, two white socks, or one white and one black sock.
There is no fourth possibility (i.e., one black and one white sock). You don't number or label the socks in your hand as "sock A and sock B" or "first and second socks" and then do probability calculations. It's just two socks. I.e., "order is discounted." Importantly, you don't draw the two socks as two independent events -
you draw the two socks as one event that has three possible outcomes - and thus you don't do the probability calcuation considering drawing the two socks as two independent events.
The probability of each outcome is 1/3, and the probability that you have at least one black sock in your hand is 2/3.
Similarly, in the twins problem as stated, the birth of the twins is one event and not two independent events, since order is discounted there are three possible outcomes to the event, the probability of each outcome is 1/3, and the probability that there is at least one girl is 2/3.
(All said in good argumentative spirit, admitting that I may be wrong, and that I suck at poker!
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