All I can say is that when I switched from my regular screen iPod to a retina display iPhone it was very noticeable. The photos just seemed brighter and better than they looked on the iPod. Photos that I thought weren't even that great somehow just looked better on the retina display.
And my girlfriend can totally tell that her $100 bottles of Aveda shampoo are "way better".
Maybe you should check if you need (new) glasses. The difference between ipads/iphones before and after retina display is huge!