DrZoidberg
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There's a bit in this talk that I thought might do better as a separate thread.
https://talkfreethought.org/showthread.php?12081-Jordan-Petersen-vs-Camille-Paglia
Peterson and Paglia talk a lot about gender roles. At one point they speculate on that part of the appeal of Islam is that they have very clear roles for men and women.
That made me think some more. I'm a man. Growing up, figuring out what a man was, was very hard. What were my duties. What wasn't I allowed to do to other men, to other girls, what was I allowed to do. It sure would have been nice with some firm guidance.
My father was an extremely manly man. Certainly physically. But too mentally weak to be anything to look up to. That made me a bit lost. It was also the 90'ies when the coolest thing you could be was bisexual. I think I was the generation that grew up directly after the sexual and feminist revolutions. My generations parents experimented like crazy. A common method of raising children for my parents generation was to do nothing. Just love them unconditionally and support them no matter. That means, not to criticise them. For me that just meant lots of insecurity.
The generation afterwards, the millennials, is a heightened version of this. But instead of doing nothing, their parents protect them from all evils, and unconditionally love and support them, no matter what. I think that generation is even more lost than my generation.
Being a man in the 70'ies was the same as being a man at any time before this. You just needed to say that you supported women's rights. But very little actually changed. Being a man in the 80'ies was much like being a man before that. But now the male body was also sexually objectified.
Then the 90'ies happened. And the male role got radically altered. I'm also from Sweden, where the changes were arguably more extreme than at other places.
Manliness became equated with being a threat. Machismo was laughed at. The less manly you were the better man you were. But of course, sexually things stayed the same. Not that anybody told the young men this. Very confusing. I've lost track of all the militant feminists who have asked me to slap in them in the face or spank them.
Sorry for being long winded. But did we lose something along the way?
I'm sorry if I sound apologetic for Islam. I'm not. I think western embrace of homosexuality and alternative lifestyles is great. And we should continue to do so. But have we embraced these at the expense of something?
https://talkfreethought.org/showthread.php?12081-Jordan-Petersen-vs-Camille-Paglia
Peterson and Paglia talk a lot about gender roles. At one point they speculate on that part of the appeal of Islam is that they have very clear roles for men and women.
That made me think some more. I'm a man. Growing up, figuring out what a man was, was very hard. What were my duties. What wasn't I allowed to do to other men, to other girls, what was I allowed to do. It sure would have been nice with some firm guidance.
My father was an extremely manly man. Certainly physically. But too mentally weak to be anything to look up to. That made me a bit lost. It was also the 90'ies when the coolest thing you could be was bisexual. I think I was the generation that grew up directly after the sexual and feminist revolutions. My generations parents experimented like crazy. A common method of raising children for my parents generation was to do nothing. Just love them unconditionally and support them no matter. That means, not to criticise them. For me that just meant lots of insecurity.
The generation afterwards, the millennials, is a heightened version of this. But instead of doing nothing, their parents protect them from all evils, and unconditionally love and support them, no matter what. I think that generation is even more lost than my generation.
Being a man in the 70'ies was the same as being a man at any time before this. You just needed to say that you supported women's rights. But very little actually changed. Being a man in the 80'ies was much like being a man before that. But now the male body was also sexually objectified.
Then the 90'ies happened. And the male role got radically altered. I'm also from Sweden, where the changes were arguably more extreme than at other places.
Manliness became equated with being a threat. Machismo was laughed at. The less manly you were the better man you were. But of course, sexually things stayed the same. Not that anybody told the young men this. Very confusing. I've lost track of all the militant feminists who have asked me to slap in them in the face or spank them.
Sorry for being long winded. But did we lose something along the way?
I'm sorry if I sound apologetic for Islam. I'm not. I think western embrace of homosexuality and alternative lifestyles is great. And we should continue to do so. But have we embraced these at the expense of something?