I know next to nothing about music, so speak to me in elementary concepts, please.
Why is is so easy to change a song by one octave when your voice doesn't match the original, but so hard to do it by a half an octave?
I'm listening to my son sing to his ipod and his voice is deeper than the original, but not quite deep enough to drop an entire octave for the whole song; certain portions require him to jump back up.
So why is it so hard to pick your own range and sing along with it?
Most (western) music is based on the major scale and thus has created the sense of what you think is real music. The major scale is not homogenous: all steps within the scale is not if equal size, the third and seventh steps are only half the others.
The differences in the steplenght results in a tonal center: we perceive the roles if the tones as different: when we established a scale each the last tone of the scale leads very strongly to the first while the first etc.
When we sings songs we simply sings the scale but in different order and rythm. Thus almost all songs have an implicit scale.
If you drop an octave all tones will have the same relations to the other tones as if you sung in the original octave. (The distance to where the half steps are will differ) since the scale repeats itself each octave.
but if you drop down three tones of the major scale you sooner or later will have to choose wether to select a tone within the original scale or within the melody as started from your tone.
Keepin singing the melody from your start tone, which is easiest, results in tones, and relations, that not belongs to the implicit scale and thus doesnt sound "right".
Singing the scale tones, which is harder, results in a nice sounding second part.
So the answer in short:
Because songs has implicit scales and theese scales repeat each octave.
An interesting thing is to test what happens when thr scale IS homogenous. As whole tone scales, dimscales (whole/half) etc.
But then those scales sound as if you sing wrong anyway...
(There are scales that doesnt repeat at the octave but those are very, very rare.)