The very first comment was threatening. "Are you a Jew?" Given the long history of Jewish persecution,
That's incorrect.
It's not the history of the persecution that makes being identified as a Jew on par with being threatened for one's Jewishness. It's the individual's sensitivity that interprets it as a threat.
I'm part of an interracial couple. For a long time, that's seemed to be very important to people in certain areas, and a fairly rare sight to people in other areas.
I've been called a nigger-lover. That's threatening.
I've also been pointed at by people who were surprised to find that we were a couple. That's not necessarily threatening. In many cases, they were just trying to figure out which of our children were 'ours' and which were 'mine' from a previous marriage.
I don't think the simple question of 'are you a Jew?' is automatically threatening. Maybe they just want to know if you have a religious reason to wear the funny hat or if there's a new fashion trend they weren't aware of.
Being in my situation, i am often curious about the nationality of people i see. But asking them "Are you South African?" is not a precursor to hostility based on the Zulu Uprising...
The closest i've come to antiSemitic hostility, i think, was one day in Floriday when i drove my son to the store and, when we stepped to the sidewalk, attempted to verify that he had made his side of the car secure. An old man started yelling at me, waving his cane, frightening my son.
He accused me of teaching anti-Semitism to my child and called me several bad names. Actually, it was two names and he kept repeating them. I wasn't impressed.
Anyway, it turned out that when i said "Did you lock your door?" i spoke a little quickly and what he HEARD was me telling Adrian to 'Jew-lock' his door. I have no fucking idea what a jew-lock would be or even be intended to mean.
But 'D'you lock th' door?' wasn't intended to offend anyone, however much he enjoyed being offended by my comment.