As such, what you have, imo, is a suggested possibility that you personally tend to favour. And not much more. The alternative explanation, that there is no such thing as immaterial/non-physical/common/universal consciousness, seems at least equally as valid. I don't think you're challenging it as much as you think. How different would things be if that latter option was correct? I'm not seeing anything to significantly counter it. And trust me, I'm not dogmatically wedded to saying it's right. If it's wrong, it would be a fascinating breakthrough in understanding.
Unfortunately for my confidence in my own powers of argumentation, the bolded is actually what I have been saying. There are no ghosts, and no Ghost. I'm not talking about a THING here, like a fairy or a deity, I'm talking about how to understand experience. When I say the subject of experience is the same for me as it is for you, that does not commit me to saying that the subject of experience is an entity like a soul. After all, we can legitimately talk about who is experiencing something without invoking anything like that.
Assuming the ordinary view of personal existence, for example, we could ask, "If I lost all my memories in a coma, would the person who wakes up be me or someone else?" There are two ways of interpreting that question, one with a relatively easy answer and one that is harder. The easy answer is for the question about whether my attributes would be so severely altered that others would be unable to relate their image of who I was to who I would be after the coma. With no memories, my personality might be so different that I would be unrecognizable even to my family. In that sense, it could be as simple as conducting a brain scan to see the extent of the damage to form an educated opinion about whether I would be a different person when I woke up.
The harder question is not about my personality, but my subjectivity. It makes a big difference for me whether or not I will be the subject that experiences waking up from a coma with no memories, as opposed to my consciousness coming to an end along with those lost memories. Do you see the distinction? The ordinary view says, I can appreciate that the person who wakes up from the coma will use the word 'me' to talk about himself, even if he has none of the memories or personality traces of the person who fell into the coma, but would it be
me using the word 'me' to talk about myself? In other words, will
I be the one feeling those sensations, having those thoughts, from the inside, or does my personal existence depend so closely on my memories that this new state of existence will be
indistinguishable from death from my perspective? Do you see how the ordinary view forces us to make a distinction between subject and person in this way?
What I'm saying is that this distinction should be abolished. To exactly the same extent, and for exactly the same reasons, that I regard my experiences prior to the coma as mine, I should regard anything experienced after the coma as mine, even if emerging from the coma leaves my brain in a condition that bears almost no similarity to its previous state. There is no additional question about whether or not I will be "live" in the mind of the amnesiac, because there is nothing physical that could account for that. All I know is that the experience I am having here and now is presented to me with all the vividness and color that confirm it as mine, and in the same way, I can identify no physical contingency to explain why that is so.
Combining these two irrefutable facts (that there is no mechanism to declare which experiences are mine based on brain state, and that at least some experiences are definitely mine) implies, necessarily, that either no experiences are mine or all of them are; no non-arbitrary method exists to resolve anything in between. Even if there is no such thing as a self and "I" persist for just the blink of an eye corresponding to some unique arrangement of psychological states before being replaced in the next instant by another, there is no principle that would tell me why a certain time-slice of consciousness was me, or why any of them were me. If the world of conscious beings is not tethered to islands surrounded by impassable metaphysical oceans, but an array of unconnected moments of subjectivity that bear no solid relationship to one another, then the question of which ones are happening to me becomes meaningless. If anything is happening to me, everything is happening to me.
Even granting that selfhood is just a user-illusion and there is no "me" for anything to happen to, whatever is being tricked by the illusion is nonetheless having the experience of being tricked by it, and that experience sure feels like it's happening to me, so maybe that's all that it
means for something to happen to me. With no such thing as a disembodied property of experience-ownership that extends to some brain states and not others, what could possibly justify saying that some instances of the user-illusion are happening to me while others are not? It is here that language starts to get fuzzy, though.
Let me put it this way: when the universal present moment was shown to be a faulty notion, unrepresentative of reality, the proper response to that revelation would not have been "you are positing a strange and non-physical 'nowness' that mysteriously inhabits many points in time that are clearly not simultaneous! How can it be true that the present moment in the Andromeda galaxy is just as much 'now' as a moment two million years in the future on Earth, unless there is some magical 'nowness' that imbues them both?" That would be to completely misunderstand Einstein's discovery. He was not saying that you could
make non-simultaneous moments happen absolutely simultaneously if you put them in a certain frame of reference, he was saying there is no absolute sense of simultaneity to begin with. His was the LESS magical view compared to the alternatives, which could not answer 'which now is
now' given contradictory reports from moving observers. Do you see the connection yet? Every moment of experience is now, and no instances of somebody calling their experience 'now' are 'more now' than any other. Far from requiring a mystical time-fairy that connects the disparate perspectives of the present moment, relatively showed that none was ever needed!
Perhaps it's no coincidence that many physicists adopt the view of personal existence I have been talking about (notably Freeman Dyson, for example). The question "what is happening
right now in the Andromeda galaxy"
literally has no answer, even though the commonsense idea of time demands one. Pick any moment within that two million-year window of the expanded present moment generated by the distance between here and there; every one of them might as well be now. In the same way, "will I be the person who wakes up from the coma with no memories" (in the sense of a subject of experience, under the ordinary view) is just as meaningless a question. And if that question is meaningless, then the same question applied to any brain, anywhere, is equally meaningless. In a very real sense, there is nothing else involved in being me than being something that calls itself "me", just like there is nothing that it means to be 'now' beyond some observer identifying it as such.