And the observation regarding the fact that money--i.e., being paid--is itself an inherently coercive act and that it's a safe bet none of the prostitutes would be doing the same thing to any of their clients if it were not the fact that they were being paid. Which tends to blow the whole "they love having sex" rationalization out of the water. I'm sure they do, but that's not the question.
If you consider 'being paid' an 'inherently coercive act', that blows up the entire idea of commerce out of water. Are you 'coercing' an electrician to fix your wiring by offering money? I am sure he or she would hardly do it for free.
But of course you, Toni and other prohibitionists do not see electricians, plumbers, beauticians, etc. that way. Only sex workers. And that explains all your arguments against sex work.
I don't think Koyaanisqatsi has any ideas of his own. He's just regurgitating rescue industry tropes. That have always been absolute bullshit. It's just moralism. Old timey hateful moralism. The interesting thing is that it's misogyny. It's the traditional old idea of trying to control women's lives because they are the housewives that raise our kids and their sanctity must be protected for the good of the nation. I find it interesting how often feminists aren't at all fighting for women's right to do what they think feels right for them. Just because you don't like something and find the idea abhorrent, doesn't mean other people also do. Feminists so often fight for various ways to keep controlling women, and of course implying that women who don't support their cause are bad women. I know there's a lot of feminists who genuinely are fighting for women's rights. But they keep being muscled out from public view by the moralistic loudmouths.
Binary, simplistically minded bullshit. If you're not with us, you're against us. Idiotic, but since you can't seem to think in a non-binary manner, let's put things into that frame so that you can follow along.
As I pointed out previously, there are two very different discussions (monologues, really) going on itt. Both are equally valid. You are defending a certain percentage of prostitutes that are 100% operating of their own free will. Myself and others are concerned about the
other percentage that are NOT operating 100% of their own free will.
Neither one of us knows exactly what those percentages are. You just keep speaking for ALL prostitutes and that ALL prostitutes are 100% acting of their own free will and they just love to have sex and it's all candy and roses. That is obviously not the case for ALL prostitutes.
Even if 99% of ALL prostitutes were operating of their own free will, there would
still be concern about the 1% that aren't. We're not talking about someone working in a fucking Ikea against their will; we're talking about state-sanctioned rape, basically. Where it is currently criminalized,
it's still rape, so the decriminalization aspect to the argument merely shifts who the pimps are, not whether or not the harms are being properly addressed.
As I have
also agreed many times, I am in full favor of decriminalizing prostitution from the sex workers perspective (i.e., not making it illegal to sell your body). I am on the fence about making the
buying of someone else's body illegal, however, as that puts the focus where it belongs; on the
motivations of the people looking to buy someone else's body, which in turn would put the focus on the people who are causing the majority of the harms against the prostitutes (the "Johns"). Not ALL Johns. If memory serves from something I read when this childishly binary shit-fest first started, it's something on the order of 20% and those figures do not significantly change when it is decriminalized, so how that gets addressed is also of concern to me.
It may not be to you, but then I don't give a flying fuck about you, nor do I just accept anything you post simply because you know some prostitutes.
In regard to making being a "John" illegal (and yes, I'm using that as a general term that includes women who go to prostitutes), we once again have a divergence of monologues, with you and your ilk arguing about 100% innocent individuals who, for whatever personal or social reason can't manage to have sex without paying, but there is also the
other percentage of "Johns" who are not 100% innocent individuals who just can't manage to have sex without paying, etc., etc., etc.
Iow, this whole fucking thread is about two valid positions talking past each other about two entirely different set of concerns that no one model yet seems to address. The best possible solution, imo, is pouring billions into sex robot technology, but then, because human nature is as horrible as a Nazi, I am equally convinced that such a shift would then inevitably result in an increase in human trafficking because men, in particular, get bored easily and haven't evolved beyond the drive to fuck anything that moves or has a moist hole.
The inherent and unique problem with prostitution is that a body is a commodity that is not autonomous (like a toaster or a software program). The best measure of "rights" has always been the old trope that my rights end where your body begins. But that's completely blurred when it comes to prostitution, because the body is now the commodity being bargained over.
That's why all of this bullshit strawman noise about "you're just a moralist puritan" is so utterly fucking boring. I'm sure there are a lot people out there--most likely in the forefront--making such noise, but I don't see anyone itt making moralist arguments. As I have also pointed out that I have been to a prostitute in Amsterdam I can't exactly take any kind of moral position on the matter even if I wanted to.
Which brings us back around to the fact that there are no simple answers. Everyone itt seems to agree, at least, that prostitutes should not be criminally punished. As for Johns, perhaps something along the lines of the "medical marijuana" model could be implemented in order to better prevent abuse? If you can prove a medical/psychological need, you get a license to fuck or the like.
Again, we're talking about making the state the pimp, so the regulatory oversight/rules of the state should also apply
in some fashion, such as getting a license to drive a car or smoke medicinal pot or buy prescription drugs or open a fucking food cart ffs. Something along these lines so that
both sides of the chasm feel like their concerns are being addressed and not just DO WHAT I SAY BECAUSE I KNOW A PROSTITUTE!
And yes, of course, sex workers should have their say in ALL of this, but it's not a matter of just accepting anything they say as gospel. Which then takes us right back to my pointing out the same fucking thing to you in regard to your anecdotes. They are useful, but not the end-all-be-all to the complexity of the issues.