You really need a woman's opinion. First of all, I strongly disagree with the claims in the link and secondly, I would say that what attracts people to each other is cultural, not set in law.
Prior to the past several decades, it may have been more common for women to be attracted to older men who were able to provide for them. Of course, there are still some of these women around. But, I married a man who is three years younger than me, and I've known many other women who were attracted and married to younger men. I once had an NP who was 17 years older than her husband, so no, I don't think it's always the case that women seek out older men. If anything women prefer men in the same age range as they are, so lets' say 5 years younger or older works.
Women in Westernized countries are becoming much more independent and capable of supporting themselves. I went back to school to become a nurse during my first marriage because I wanted a career that would always allow me the freedom not to become dependent on a man. So, now that more women are professionals as well as simply capable of earring their own money, there is far less desire or need to look for an older man who can support them. Culture changes.
When I was single, most of the men who found me attractive were younger than I am. In fact, even as recently as two years ago, I've had younger men flirt with me, not knowing that I am happily married and not interested. I worked in an assisted living facility where their where almost always romances going on. Most of the time, the men were younger than the women, including one or two women in their 80s having affairs with men in their 60s or 70s. Of course, living in such conditions does limit your options. How do I know about these affairs? The women trusted me and told me the lurid details of their sex lives. Most common complaint was that the men had erection problems, but they still enjoyed the "heavy petting". ( that was their term not mine ) But I digress.
It does seem that when older men divorce, they often seek out younger women, but I don't know if this is always the case. My brother in law dates younger women, after his wife, who was 9 years older than him, got up and left him one day. It does seem common that wealthy men do go after 'trophy wives". I would never want to be a trophy wife, nor was I ever attracted to a man with lots of money. They tend to be shallow and self centered imo. I don't think most women care about that these days.
In countries were women are still very oppressed, they are often forced into marriages with much older men who can support them. That's not what these women want, but they don't have the freedom to choose their own mates. Anyone read about the "honor Killing" recently in Iran? A woman had fallen in love with a man her own age, but her father disapproved and killed her. So, women in parts of the world still aren't allowed to choose their own mates.
I would say that men do seem more interested in the physical attractiveness, while women look for other things in a man. My husband claims that he fell in love with me at first sight. I'm skeptical of that, but he was obviously physically attracted to me, while I wasn't at all physically attracted to him at first. I was attracted to his sense of humor, andhis affectionate and generous nature, all things that my first husband lacked. As I got to know him better, I realized that we had a lot in common and that's what sealed the relationship.
And let me add this. I was reading a book about chimps, as I love reading about my fellow great apes. Male chimps are more attracted to the older females. It could be because they've already proven they are fertile or maybe they want a female who has some experience. Unfortunately, we can't ask the male chimps exactly why they prefer the older females, but they do. Of course, bonobos will fuck anyone with a pulse, but bonobos are a matriarchal society which has used sex as a way to keep the peace. Again, I digress.
In modern Western culture, I seriously doubt one can make any generalizations about what attracts women to men or men to women. There are far too many factors to consider.
I'm not buying into the idea that women are attracted to tall men either, although most women probably want a man who is taller than themselves. My sister has been happily married to a man who is a little bit shorter than her. One of the most popular boys when I was in the 9th grade was about 5ft. tall. Again, don't generalize. I've been attracted to short and tall men when I was single. Height never entered my mind. My husband is quite a bit taller than me, and that comes in handy when I can't reach a high shelf in the grocery store, but otherwise, it's inconsequential.
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