It's dad's fault that the child is molested because he has the audacity to bring her to the airport.
Yes, it is, if he forces said child to undergo a patting down that the child objects to and that the father considers inappropriate. The father has the option to not take the flight. Yes, I do blame him for this if it is what he says it is. He is admitting to forcing it on the child. Or are you envisioning the TSA holding them as prisoners and demanding they be patted down before they can leave the airport without getting on the plane?
I did not and do not blame the child for anything. The child is the victim, if what the writer is saying is true, and the father is party to victimizing the child.