And contrary to what you stated, SR/GR does ot “assume” absolute space and time.
I did not say that. I said it "assumes" "absolute" space-time.
No, that's not what you said. If that's what you
meant, then it looks like what we have here is a failure to communicate. Here's exactly what you said:
Yes, of course it is. It assumes absolute space and time,
Then SR/GR are wrong too, since they assume the same.
That's you saying SR/GR assume the same as Newton's Law of Gravity, which, as I said, assumes absolute space and time. So if you thought you were saying SR/GR assume absolute space-time, you must have thought I was saying Newton's Law of Gravity assumes absolute space-time. I was not. What I said, and meant, is that Newton's law of gravity assumes absolute space and time.
"Space-time" is different from "space and time". Space-time is one single unified 4-D manifold with Minkowski geometry; space and time are two distinct 3-D and 1-D manifolds with independent Euclidean geometry. What it means for a manifold to be "absolute" in this context is that the separation between two points ("events") in the manifold is the same for all observers. Let the separations along each axis between two points be called X, Y, Z and T. Then "absolute space and time" means "X^2 + Y^2 + Z^2 is the same for all observers, and T^2 is the same for all observers". In contrast, "absolute space-time" means "X^2 + Y^2 + Z^2 - T^2 is the same for all observers." I was saying Newton's Law of Gravity is wrong because it assumes the former, whereas the latter is how the universe appears to actually work. SR/GR assume the latter.
In this sense we could describe Newton's laws as relative as well -- they're merely observer-orientation-relative rather than observer-velocity-relative. One could imagine an alternate world where X^2 is the same for all observers and Y^2 is the same for all observers and Z^2 is the same for all observers. That would be a world of absolute width, length and height, as opposed to our world where the same object that's two meters wide and one meter long for one observer is simultaneously two meters long and one meter wide for an observer looking at it from a 90-degree different direction. Measurements being observer-relative means the different coordinates change into one another as you change the observer. Relativity showed that time-dilation and length-contraction are a funny sort of non-Euclidean rotation in which part of T is interchanged with part of X, Y and Z, analogous to the more familiar Euclidean rotations in which parts of X, Y and Z interchange with one another. So another way to phrase my original statement would be "Newton's law of gravity is wrong because it assumes time and space do not rotate into each other."