That “feminism” got mixed into it is unfortunate. I wonder if just the mere word will lead other persons to feel the need to turn on auto-pilot and defend her based on big generalizations about “what men do”?
I think it'd be a lot like Kevorkian was way back when. At first, all i knew was that he supported something i supported, so i supported him. As time went on and i learned more about him and the various things he supported, i was more embarrassed that he'd become the poster child for the issue. Everyone around me was conflating assisted suicide with some really creepy stances and claims...
Well, one of her complaints is that a guy came up to her in the food court, took a seat at the table behind her and coughed 'at her.' And continued to cough despite her asking him to stop.
I think anyone who rushes to her feminist defense will, over time, come to see that it's not really about how all men treat all women. She's industrial grade paranoid, and even if she does identify a man out to chauvinist her to the side, he'll be the one time that day that her clock was accurate.