peacegirl
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- I believe in determinism which is the basis of my worldview
I have never ignored counterarguments. I listen and I give my response. You, on the other hand, play dirty by trying very hard to make this book look silly. You did it for many years and you're trying your old tricks again. I hope people are smart enough to do their own thinking.Report me. It is true that you have nothing left in your toolbox. Does anyone see the unfairness here? Pood can hurt me by misrepresenting this author and then cry to the moderators that my justified response against his misrepresentation is an ad hom?I've corrected you many times. You are repeating this excerpt because it sounds funny without it being read in context. You have nothing left in your toolbox. You have failed in your comprehension because you did not read the book. You took what sounds silly when read out of context and ran with it because you hate his claim regarding light and sight.Wow.I'm not a man. I'm a mother and grandmother.Tell me that you are not a man, without telling me that you are not a man.The urge to mate doesn't have to lead to aggression. IOW, it's not a biological trait in humans like in other animals.
Your reasoning is shallow. I never said that there aren't fights to win over a woman, but basing your ideas on what is happening in today's world is not what I'm referring to. I am referring to the possibilities of a new world that you have no understanding of because you don't read. Fighting and killing opponents to win a woman is not a sociological inevitability, which you will never understand.(Young) men fight over women. It's stupid, and (in many modern societies) pointless. It happens anyway, even to those of us who are massively averse to violence in all other contexts.
I can count the number of fights I have been in in my 55 years of life on the fingers of one hand. But even I fought over women (girls, really) when I was a teenager. If it's not a biological trait, it certainly looks like one.
Right, and in your “new world,” the three types of “homo-sexuals” —“I-homos,” “E-homos,” and “G-homos” — are all destined to pass by the wayside in due course, remember?Your problem is not that people failed to read what your writer wrote. You problem is that they DID read it.
So, to be fair, I didn't read a lick of her (daddy's) bullshit?
Also, why are all the cults so vile against the LGBT?
I find it weird, honestly, that every person to spawn a worldly religion seems to be in lockstep there: denigrate psychology/psychiatry, and attack the gays.
I actually look on these as the hallmarks of a cult at this point, the first thing I should ask whether it is happening before scouring a belief structure for whatever "loss leaders" they use, and then throwing away the rest.
Falun Gong? Attacks psychology and the gays.
Scientology? Attacks psychology and the gays.
Seventh Day Adventists? Attacks psychology and the gays.
JW?
Mormons?
You guessed it... They attack psychology and the gays.
It's almost like psychology gives people the means to solve their problems without needing a cult, and as if gay people increase the financial capabilities of a whole family so as to defeat generational poverty without getting a nod from the church.
Well, it’s even weirder, because in the “new world,” people won’t in love with other people. People will “fall in love” with other people’s sex organs. Also, in the new world, it will be “mathematically impossible” for married couples to desire to share a bed. Of course, all this crap should be in her own thread, so hereafter I will try to un-derail things.
Ad hom, to be reported.
I did not misrepresent the author. You quoted the stupid sex organs passage yourself!
Ad hom is when you ignore counterarguments from your interlocutors and attribute opposition to a claim to something personal about them. You do this all the time. So, yes, it will be reported.
You are so mixed up. He did not say that. You failed to read the chapter that would help make sense of this passage. To be clear, people have certain things they look for, one being attractiveness. When words like beautiful and ugly are removed from our dictionaries (I know people will not understand why), and people are not conditioned to seeing this beauty and ugliness, there will be a much broader distribution of what people find attractive due to their personal likes and dislikes, not due to a standard that places some people as having this value and some that don't. Until these changes take place, if a person is attracted to someone who is not attracted to them --- and they cannot find their ideal, but they are ready to get married and settle down --- they will look for someone who is ready for the same thing regardless of their facial features. Looks becomes secondary when people stop criticizing their choice in a mate, and when they fall more and more in love after they consummate their union in a sexual relationship.You have to be blind not to see that sex is one of the most important aspects of romantic love. Give me a break Pood. He also said that love will grow stronger after marriage, not before, because nothing will be said or done that would hurt the other intentionally or unintentionally that would lessen sexual desire. The bond between two people will grow with each passing year.TYou're just repeating this as a last-ditch effort to hurt the author and get me out of the way, so you don't have to contend with my refutations. It's so obvious. Now I am forced to rectify your misinformation which I can only corrected in a limited way because this excerpt depends on previous chapters to be fully understood. If people turn away, so be it. I am not depending on this forum for anything.
It is true that we have already been conditioned to move in the direction of certain preferences, but we cannot be hurt when these individuals reject us at the very outset and when other choices in a partner will never be directly or indirectly criticized. If a boy desires a type of girl like Elizabeth Taylor who does not desire his type, he is compelled to put the proverbial horse before the cart and search for the type of girl who is ready to have sex with him. He will then fall in love with her sexual organs and her features will become secondary because nobody will ever refer indirectly to her as ugly by calling other types beautiful, which in our present world could possibly make him regret his choice and keep an eye out for someone who would be looked upon by others as having more to offer in the way of physical appearance. But how is it possible for him to regret his choice when the world stops criticizing and when he has fallen head over heels for his sweetheart, which takes place after, not before, the sexual union?
Everyone can make their own judgment about that ludicrous passage.Notice how shallow he was — in this world we fall in love with physical appearance, but — ah! — in the “new world” we’ll fall in love with sex organs instead! Too bad it never occurred to Simple Seymour that most people fall in love with other people, not their looks or their sex organs.
Your author claimed that right now people fall in love with each other’s physical appearance, but in the “new world” appearance won’t matter
No, you are the one that has misunderstood his words from day one., so they will fall in love with sex organs instead! It’s right there in the quoted passage! These are the claims of someone with arrested development who has an adolescent’s understanding of intimacy, love and sex.
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