Emily Lake
Might be a replicant
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Survival for how long? And at what cost (monetary, health, family structure, etc.)? A child delivered at 30 weeks faces immediate challenges but also life long risks.Whether or not performing an abortion deprives anyone of anything has still to be answered.Whether or not an action that deprives someone of their life is considered to be murder is a legal decision.
It is dishonest to presume your opinion to be fact.
A fetus developed to 30 weeks can live outside the womb with minimal risk of long term health impacts.
If that fetus is prematurely delivered, then terminated outside the womb... do you consider it NOT murder? Do you consider that to have NOT deprived them of life?
My husband was born at 34 weeks gestation. He has had a lifetime history of various respiratory illnesses, including asthma and for one entre year, repeated bouts of bronchitis and pneumonia. I seriously thought I would be left a widow with 2 children in my mid-20's. Whether or not that was connected to his premature birth, I have no way of knowing. AFAIK, no doctor ever inquired and I did not attend every medical appointment.
I understand that you care very much about babies --me, too! But I also care very much about people being able to control their own bodies and to make their own medical and reproductive choices. I may not agree with those choices but I made my own choices and have lived with them.
I support people making their own reproductive choices... but at 6 months gestation, I'm pretty sure that the reproduction has already happened. At that point, I do think it should be a medical choice, and only a medical choice.
I'm no more sanguine about a mother 34 weeks along 'choosing' to abort a health fetus than I would be with your mother in law having decided to terminate her 34 week premie. I understand that you feel differently, and that you seem to draw a meaningful distinction between a highly developed offspring inside the womb and a highly developed offspring outside the womb. That's your choice, based on your belief. I just disagree, and I don't think that a difference in location of a few feet makes enough of a difference.