Interesting that you believe you are being used as a punching bag because I suggested that maybe white men should try to put themselves in the position of women, and especially women of color. Especially given the statistics re: domestic abuse. Asking for empathy in your mind = treating you as a punching bag. That says way more about you as a person than it does me or about your politics or mine or anybody's.
And you illustrate the problem: you don't even recognize that you're using him as a punching bag. It is not that you are asking for empathy, it is that you are asking white males to accept second class citizen status as compensation for past wrongs they had no part in committing.
Second class citizen status? Really. That is hyperbolic nonsense. That concept is on par with Christians that are being “persecuted” just by people not bowing to them or letting them have exclusive access to public space for their holy displays.
Muslims regard all non-Muslims as second class citizens.
Perhaps some Muslins do but none that I’ve ever known. Of course many Americans regard the rest of the world as, at best, second class citizens. Plenty of Iranians and Saudis seem to regard most of the rest of the works as second class. Pretty sure that not that long ago, Germans regarded in-Aryans as sub human. We haven’ t even mentioned how whites viewed those they enslaved and indigenous people. Or that plenty of Americans are not much better today.
And of course, in most of the world, including in the US, ( some) people like to view women as second class citizens. In the US, women could not establish credit on their own or get a mortgage until the 1970’s, and a lot of people went tonnage it difficult for women to vote or control their own bodies or seek out the medical care they want or need. Women are still under treated for pain and for heart attacks, for example.