Oh please. You've been haranguing him about his speculation for two weeks.
And?
And it's therefore silly for you to suggest you weren't criticizing him.
Haranguing? Misery? Trauma? You sure do like your hyperbole. You know this is a discussion board, right?
Trauma? You know Tom and I aren't the same person, right? If you think the other two are hyperbole, matter of opinion.
Does poor widdle Tom need big strong Bomb to come in like the white knight saving the princess from the dragon?
I was calling you on your double standard, dude; I wasn't defending Tom, who's fully qualified.
There most certainly is a reason a woman would go to all that trouble. Which do you believe is the more likely reason why a grown woman would go to the trouble to install curtains and some sort of contraption to allow her to urinate in an automobile so a man won't be able to hear her do so.
Which do you believe is the more likely reason you haven't stopped beating your wife yet? You can't stop yourself from assuming facts not in evidence even after it's been pointed out to you.
What facts have I assumed but are not in evidence?
I've told you and told you, and you quoted it back to me. Pay attention. You said ==> "so a man won't be able to hear her do so." <==
You made that up! There is no evidence that the problem she has with a man being in the restroom is that the man can hear her. That's a completely fanciful hypothesis that doesn't pass the laugh test. If that were her real motivation then she wouldn't mind as long as the man was deaf, which is highly improbable psychology. I don't know why you made up such an implausible motivation for her, or why you then doubled down on it and then tripled down on it, but giving yourself an excuse to blame the woman for her emotions instead of blaming the man for not respecting female boundaries looks like a good bet.
Oh, good lord. A man possibly hearing a woman pee is now having misery imposed on her!!!
I can't...
I just can't...
You just can't what? You just can't help making up new details?
Do you have some evidence that what makes her so upset about a man being in the restroom with her is
he might hear her pee?!?
I'm making up details???
Yes. Obviously.
What details did I make up? Please be specific.
How much more specific can I be than quoting you doing it and asking if you have evidence for the precise detail you asserted? Pay attention. You said ==> " A man possibly hearing a woman pee is". <==
You made that up!
Who was it that said the words "trauma" and "misery"? Sheesh!
Tom said trauma; I said misery. You got a problem with trauma, take it up with Tom; oh wait, you already did. You got a problem with misery, do you seriously think peeing
in a jar in your car without even the benefit of a directional nozzle is a happy-making experience?
Now who's adding details?
What detail? Not having a penis to direct her urine flow with? That kind of goes with the whole "a woman" thing I mentioned when I brought up the case. If you mean the jar, that is the traditional receptacle to use when your car doesn't come with a built-in toilet, but you're right, for all I know maybe she used Tupperware. Consider "jar" withdrawn.
Your turn. Who was it who said "earshot", and "A man possibly hearing a woman pee" and "so a man could not hear her pee" and "so a man won't be able to hear her do so"? That's all on you. You made that part up out of whole cloth. Seriously, dude, do you really think a woman who "carries a hang up" as you put it, about having a strange man with no respect for female boundaries in the restroom with her. would go all "Oh, that's okay then" if the guy were deaf?!?
When you first posted the story, I specifically asked if there were no doors on the stalls. If there were, how would someone know she was peeing if not by the sound? It seemed a pretty safe assumption.
It's a safe assumption that he needs to hear her to know she's peeing; therefore it's a safe assumption that her goal is to stop him hearing her?!? Can you even hear yourself? Why would you think she's focused on whether he knows she's peeing rather than a dozen more obvious things for her to worry about, such as, say, whether he's going to hurt her?
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