This coming from the only admitted voyeur on the forum!
This post has been much discussed already, and it was mostly subjective opinion anyway, so I'll just draw attention to the two objective claims you made...
No, Emily, your victims certainly did not consent to be violated by you, let alone outed,
Emily did not out the men she was describing. This is not rocket science -- she did not supply enough identifying information for anyone to figure out which men she was referring to. You are making a blatantly false accusation; and I do not believe for a second that you did it innocently and just didn't know what it means to "out" someone.
Emily did not misgender the men she was describing. This is not rocket science -- "mis" is a prefix that means "wrongly", and Emily did not gender the men wrongly. She gendered them as male, and in point of fact they are of the male gender. That is gendering them rightly. The interminably-repeated canard that correctly stating someone's sex qualifies as "misgendering" provided the person identifies as the other sex is derived from equivocating "gender" with "gender identity". Equivocation is a fallacy -- one responsible for quite a few of gender ideology's counterfactual religious dogmas.