I think it's practically certain that alien life of some form exists elsewhere in the universe.
However, such life is most likely to be equivalent to single celled organisms or very primitive life.
I think multicellular life, that would be similar to plants or animals, would be much rarer.
And intelligent life far rarer still.
And life that is able to travel between the stars even rarer still.
And it's practically impossible that such life forms have come to Earth and done experiments on people.
I think you are probably right, but it it hard to quantify these claims. It remains possible that complex and intelligent life arose much earlier on other planets than on our own, and we are an outlier.
I'm with
@Kylie on this one. Even on Earth, her heirarchy holds true - most life is unicellular and simple; Multicellular and/or intelligent life is far less common, though it's much easier for us to notice, 'cos a) it's big; And b) it's us.
Interstellar travel is still waaaaaay beyond our abilities, and is likely to remain so; Even our crazy billionaires who can afford to indulge a whim to promote spaceflight (which is very highly unprofitable, and seems destined to remain so for a loooooong time), limit their ambitions to visiting Mars, which is just next door, but is at the limit of our abilities; And the Moon, which is our own backyard.
And notably depite their desires, wealth, and efforts, they have yet to even get to the Moon.
The nearest star is in the order of 200,000 times as far away as Mars. The nearest star that has any chance of hosting Earthlike life is five or ten times as far again.
And all our space propulsion systems suffer from the fundamental laws of physics - the cost and difficulty of travelling to a distant location rises
at least exponentially with distance.
My guess is that even if we were united as a species, with the goal of reaching an exoplanet as our sole priority, we still couldn't do it in the lifetime of our own star. And of course, the same applies to any aliens who might want to come here.
But if we could do it, why would we? Everywhere else is horrible. Mars is incredibly Earthlike as planets go, but is instantly lethal to pretty much all Earth life without massive engineering to protect against the hostile atmosphere, toxic soil, ionising radiation, and bitter cold. And that's the best part of the planet; a deep valley near the equator, in summer. The water (which we're gonna need) is all locked up at the poles.
If we wanted to live permanently on Mars, why don't any of us want to live permanently in Antarctica? Antarctica is an absolute
paradise by comparison.