... I'm saying that no army in the world seeks to minimize civilian casualties like Israel does, even to the point of placing their own soldiers in harms way by doing so.
Cite please?
This is an oft-repeated propaganda point from the Israeli government, but I've not seen anything in the way of substantiation that would allow us, as you seem to be doing, to treat this as a fact.
Putting your own soldiers in harm's way to minimise civilian casualties is a common practice in a great many countries. That's why some soldiers, for example in Iraq, are trained to storm crowded rooms and shoot particular targets, rather than just blowing up the whole building and claiming it was justified because someone in there was probably a terrorist.
Certainly my impression of the IDF is that, despite it's tenacity and discipline in some areas, that it has relatively low standards of civilian care. Hence it's habit of using white phosphorous and dumb bombs in urban areas, it's habit of setting up free fire exclusion zones where people live, and it's use of missiles and guided bombs as weapons of assassination. The British army managed to avoid all of these in Northern Ireland, despite having suffered rather more casualties than the Israelis.
However, I'm happy to read anything you might have on the subject, assuming you weren't just uncritically repeating Israeli propaganda?