I'm not debating. I'm not trying to win. We're having a friendly conversation where we have a shared goal. I'm asking questions to learn better what you had in mind.
If that was true, then why did you also explicitly insult me earlier, when you called me dishonest? That was unwarranted and dragged the tone of the discussion down further. Is that what you normally do when you are wanting a “friendly conversation” with someone? Why have so many of your replies had sarcastic, dismissive, demeaning, quick comebacks instead of addressing the issues with more substance and depth and a civil tone?
I'm actually fine with you thinking I'm not humble. There has been no heated rhetoric from my end.
Right. Telling someone that they are dishonest is not heating up the rhetoric. Is that just part of your normal way of talking with someone when you are trying to have a “civil conversation” with them? Then when they point out how overly-aggressive you are being, you pile it on further by portraying them as being “defensive” instead of correcting your own behavior?
Yes, it is. It is not that you just rephrased my argument. It is that you did so inaccurately, and then argued against that misportrayal instead of what my actual position is. That is arguing against a strawman. That may very well have been an innocent error, absolutely. When I point out though that you never give any source (such as a quote or a link) to me advocating for the position that you think I am, you do not acknowledge that you have none and retract the error. In the example we are speaking of, you had said “If you only focus on…” Nobody actually held the view that we should “only focus on…” anything, much less the one thing you went on to further address.
Nor malicious intent. Quite the opposite. If you say something and I'm trying to understand it it's often helpful to reformulate it to lay bare the internal logic. That's what I'm trying to do.
You made a mistake then in your reformulation of it. It never has been my position that we should “only focus on the belief in God.” Let’s go completely barebones with that one line. Will you acknowledge that I have never advocated that, that it is not a view I espouse and do not hold, and that I never implied or stated? I am telling you here, now, that I reject the view that we should “only focus on the belief in God.” Nobody else in this thread (to the best of my memory) has endorsed such a position as well. Will you admit that it was a strawman mischaracterization and an error then?
It looks to me like you have a hard time deciding whether religious belief is intrinsically linked to community (and other mysterious cores of religion) and can only be discussed together with it, or if each of the core aspects of religion can be discussed in isolation. Since it's central to the OP, this might be good to sort out?
We can discuss the different aspects in isolation, while realizing that that is just a discussion and an exchange of ideas. As it plays out, those different aspects will still have farther-reaching consequences on each other as well.
This analogy may help you understand more clearly:
We can talk about the human heart and the human lungs separately. We have entire fields of medicine devoted to studying each of those organs in more specific detail. Still we recognize that they are interdependent on each other when it comes to how it affects the human body altogether. They impact each other and their impacts cannot be isolated from each other, even if we can still talk about them separately.
Similarly, we can discuss politics, economics, social movements, religion, etc. throughout history more individually while also realizing that they influence each other.
I agree that we can discuss them separately, but disagree that their entire impacts can be separated from each other.
What I disagree with is the notion that religions only harm people when they are enforced on others. Many atheists utter the mantra of “I do not care what they believe as long as they do not force it on me.” Well, as long as they exist they will get forced on you, or at least influence your life (and others), one way or another. It may be more direct or more indirect, but religious beliefs will impact you and other victims as long as they are present.
I also wish atheists were more outspoken. I think it would be a good thing.
Agreed.