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The answer is to treat people as individuals with traits rather than as interchangeable members of groups.

Said the person who has given up on making distinctions between Feminists.

Oh I get it. We're to take a certain approach when it suits us and not when it doesn't. ;)

I explained already that I was defining what I consider to be feminism, as opposed to egalitarianism. I asked you to give your own definitions distinguishing between the two. You declined to instead make your personal attacks. I also state, yet again, that where I fail to do as I describe in the post above, I fall short. I never claimed to be perfect.

You have responded to a thoughtful post with personal judgments and personal attacks on the author rather than by addressing the text. You are better than that. I've seen better from you. It doesn't matter who I am or what you think of me. My text stands on its own.
 
I explained already that I was defining what I consider to be feminism, as opposed to egalitarianism. I asked you to give your own definitions distinguishing between the two.

According to my own personal definition they're all egalifeministitarians. I'm following your lead and giving up on making distinctions when it suits me.
 
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According to my own personal definition they're all egalifeministitarians. I've taken your lead and given up on treating people as individuals when it suits me.

When you insist on behaving as a child, I simply have to put you back on ignore.
 
Before you do that, I just want to say that it's cool having someone like you at the forum willing to promote and defend identity politics at least some of the time.
 
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The other thing worth noting, imo (and some people here might not agree with me) is that when you have a section of society which has had to put up with more (which imo women do, generally) or are more often on the receiving end, then that section arguably going ott (let's say cheering a woman who cut off a man's penis) is to at least some extent, more excusable or mitigated, even if still not justified (because two wrongs don't make a right). And I accept that one of the several reasons why women might (might) get away with more in this general respect might be validly to do with that background context. And other things, I'm not saying that's the only reason and I'm certainly not condoning a possible double standard nonetheless.

But there is always a risk of equating things which aren't necessarily equatable or are deprived of context.

Just on this (and yes I know it's a bit off the OP topic) I reminded myself of the background context in the particular (Lorena Bobbitt) case.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/John_and_Lorena_Bobbitt

It does appear likely that she was physically, emotionally, sexually and financially abused by her husband on an ongoing basis prior to the attack on him and he has subsequently gone on to be charged 3 times for assault on a subsequent female partner (convicted once as far as I can tell). She (Lorena Bobbitt) was found not guilty on grounds of (temporary?) insanity.

Given all that, I would give the public quite a bit of leeway when it comes to having sympathy for her, albeit what she did was not justified. At the very least there seem to have been mitigating circumstances.
 
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The other thing worth noting, imo (and some people here might not agree with me) is that when you have a section of society which has had to put up with more (which imo women do, generally) or are more often on the receiving end, then that section arguably going ott (let's say cheering a woman who cut off a man's penis) is to at least some extent, more excusable or mitigated, even if still not justified (because two wrongs don't make a right). And I accept that one of the several reasons why women might (might) get away with more in this general respect might be validly to do with that background context. And other things, I'm not saying that's the only reason and I'm certainly not condoning a possible double standard nonetheless.

But there is always a risk of equating things which aren't necessarily equatable or are deprived of context.

Just on this (and yes I know it's a bit off the OP topic) I reminded myself of the background context in the particular (Lorena Bobbitt) case.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/John_and_Lorena_Bobbitt

It does appear likely that she was physically, emotionally, sexually and financially abused by her husband on an ongoing basis prior to the attack on him and he has subsequently gone on to be charged 3 times for assault on a subsequent female partner (convicted once as far as I can tell). She (Lorena Bobbitt) was found not guilty on grounds of (temporary?) insanity.

Given all that, I would give the public quite a bit of leeway when it comes to having sympathy for her, albeit what she did was not justified. At the very least there seem to have been mitigating circumstances.

Exactly. This is why the Bobbitt case is very different. She was lashing out at an abuser, not going after an innocent.
 
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