It's a bit like learning a language, I think. I can make nothing of Indian music, the classical sort anyway, but that's because I never listen to any, and I'm baffled by modern pop because it's so bloody loud it gives me earache. I was brought up on Welsh folksong (oh, and hymns. I suppose), then moved on to trad jazz, and it was only in my late teens I got on to classical. The great trick is to marry someone who loves it, and listen when people play it. As far as I can see it is hugely more interesting than any other music on earth, and I can quite easily distinguish the major composers now. I haven't got the attention-span for symphonies, and left to myself I'd always choose songs, because I've got the words to hang onto. That's why I love Schubert. Bloody genius!