In ye olden dayes, as WilliamB, I used to type out L O N G paragraphs hopelessly defending my point of view. I used to get anxious and angry and frightened by thinking about the responses I might receive. I didn't want to be wrong on the Internet. I wanted 2 always be correct on the Internet. I spent massive amounts of time and energy in a nervous fight with ye invisible thinking foes in the seemingly infinite universe of the Internet.
Then I had a psychotic episode that wound me up in hospital [please note English lack of 'the'] in 2011, and o'er the course of these last few years, I have continued to lose more marbles.
But, if one reads his (or hers) Spinoza*, Pascal*, and (at times) Schopenhauer (avoiding the Hume, and that guy who's name I always have to check the spelling of who's name ends with a 'che' and contains a 'z', or zed for you Canucks), one will realize that everything you are thinking of or have thought aboot has been thought ages ago, and that everything we are typing here has already been scribbled and/or chiseled out in some form or another, across the ages, and all over the world.
I think we are all selfish by necessity. It's nature. We cannot undo or alter the WAY things ARE. Look at Nature. Look at lions tearing apart a little gazelle, or a bear swiping some dope with a camera's head off, or two walruses battling it out, or two giraffes [youtube], or rams. Check out the barbarity of a fancy English fox hunt, or the Spanish bullfighters.
Think this: while some poor fox is being shredded to pieces by a pack of yapping beagles with sharp teeth and powerful jaws, and while some man is being burned alive in a cage, some guy in Japan is having sex with 100 women, having it video-taped, and getting paid for it.
There are hundreds of children who are master musicians and composers in China, Japan, the Polynesian Islands alone, whom no-one will ever hear of, while in Amerika millions of people are babbling about Beyoncé, Moby, and whatshisname.
The world is upsidedown. The crap is at the top, the good stuff is at the bottom.
The only hope is the widespread application of Love*, tolerance* and understanding.*
And sharing, and giving.
And to know that we're intransigently stupid. <3
Hedonism is NOT the way.
But it's natural.