P.R. in Arvada, CO, writes: Your item "
Trans Is The New Abortion" got me wondering why people hate trans people so much. One of the biggest changes I have made in myself was becoming an atheist (a very long time ago). One thing that forced me to do was to justify my feelings towards others. There was no longer a book or "pillar of the community" I could look towards to justify hating groups of people. The result of that was a quick realization that my previous negative opinions of other groups were not based on anything I truly believed, and so I went from dislike of other groups to a more apathetical—I don't care about the label you have been given, I either like you as a person or I don't.
After reading your item I ran through some reasons why I thought people would not like trans people and to be honest, I am at a loss as to why someone would dislike them so much.
My first thought was it has to be religion. That will be why trans people are so hated. It doesn't make any sense to me, though. I mean, why that particular group? Maybe there is something about it in the Bible or another religious text but surely there are worse things people do. When someone gets divorced, they break their vow to God. How is breaking a vow to God not worse than surgery? If there was a reason to hate people based on religion, surely making a promise to God and breaking it would be the worst thing you could do. I'm pretty sure no one has made a promise to be male or female and gone back on it. I struggle to see how you could use religion to justify this level of hatred, but be fine with other behaviors. A woman talking in church has an actual penalty spelled out so it must be more offensive to God, but no one seems to care about that. If someone says their religion leads them to discriminate against trans people, then they have to justify why that is so bad but so many other things specifically called out in the Bible are OK.
Maybe it is because they think trans people are somehow sexual perverts just trying to molest children or people of the other sex. If that was the case, though, people like Matt Gaetz, Gym Jordan, Donald Trump, et al., would be absolute pariahs. They clearly aren't so there cannot be any real desire to hold sex perverts to account.
Maybe they are scared of people who are different than themselves. Maybe if it was liberals who had this fear, I could get on board. It seems to be the people who are most definitely not snowflakes, though, who are against trans people. These big brave people clearly are not going to be scared of someone they see as inferior, though, are they?
I can't figure out why anyone would truly be against trans people. Maybe someone can explain to me why they feel trans people should be discriminated against and how they justify it. The trans people I personally know are some of the nicest people I have the pleasure of knowing. They have had a lot of hate thrown at them and their journey has been far from easy. I may not truly understand what they went through or why they made the decisions they did but I do know it wasn't a spur-of-the-moment thing or to have a chance at winning a medal or some other petty reason. Just once it would be nice to see people on the right stand up and tell their representatives that they do not support this kind of baseless hatred of people. Of course, maybe it isn't baseless, and they can actually justify their position. Somehow I doubt it, though.