Toni
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You’ve never been a 14 year old girl, much less a 14 year old girl with a stage mother.Your claim was that she was "massively abused". The article does not back up your claim.Does she? [citation needed]Brooke Shields considers herself to have been massively abused in the making of that movie.![]()
Brooke Shields Ignored ‘Blue Lagoon’ Director’s Phone Call After She Criticized the Film for Exploiting Her ‘Sexual Awakening’
Brooke Shields says "The Blue Lagoon" exploited her sexual awakening.variety.com
It is true that she feels exploited in hindsight of several decades and changes in societal attitudes toward how teenage sexuality is portrayed, but that is not the same as being "abused" on set, much less "massively" so.
Girls are very much raised to not make waves, to be ‘nice’ which means compliant. It is difficult to push back against violation of boundaries if you have never been allowed to have boundaries.
I realize that it is a common fantasy for some males that 14 year old girls are just waiting for some man to awaken their innermost sexual desires. But that’s a male fantasy. 14 year olds are children, even if their bodies arouse sexual desire in adults. 14 year olds are trying to figure themselves out, to figure out what, if any, say they have about their own lives, their own thoughts, their own feelings. Those are just everyday 14 year olds. Add in all of the adults telling you you must do this or it will hurt your career . Brooke Shiekds’ mother was divorced and put her daughter in commercials at age 11 MONTHS. Her income depended upon her daughter’s career, pressure that was not lost on her daughter as it is never lost on any child, particularly the only child of a mother. Her mother saw Brooke as ‘a sexy child’ and capitalized on that, monetarily and emotionally. FWIW, the actors who played Romeo and Juliet felt similarly exploited, and had been told that they would be wearing body suits during the infamous love scene and then were not allowed to wear body suits and told that their willingness to do the scene nude would determine whether the film succeeded or failed. That’s an enormous amount of pressure to put on a kid who lacks the maturity and agency and who has no life experience to help them advocate for themselves.
I think a lot of adult men confuse their own feelings with what it is like to be a 14 or 15 year old girl.