Fermi's paradox is simply resolved by the rarity of life, and the VAST distances between stars.
The assumption that life is very common tends to rest on very optimistic assumptions about how easy it is for life to get started. If it was as easy and commonplace as many seem to think, we would expect Venus to host life - it's in the right range of distance from a suitable star, the right size, the right composition; But it's about as inimical to life as you could want.
It's fairly obvious that life is rare. It's also very obvious that interstellar communications are very difficult indeed.
If there was another Earth a hundred light years away, identical to ours in every respect, we would struggle to detect it.
It's a serious stretch to suggest that it would be easier to detect in the future - Earth reached 'peak alien detectability' during the Cold War, when powerful primary radar arrays were broadcasting into space. Today our radio transmissions are weaker and more directed at our own planet. Not because our technology has declined, but because it has advanced - brute power has been replaced by efficient directionality, and space-based communications such as geostationary satellites have largely been superseded by optical fibre surface based comms, which are faster (because they are shorter), and more efficient (because the signal only goes to the recipient, rather than being broadcast omni-directionally).
We may never be able to broadcast over interstellar distances at sufficient power to be detected; We almost certainly will never be able to travel them.
You're left with assuming that someone will make a von Newman probe at some point. That's a pretty big assumption, IMO.
There's no paradox. Other intelligent life is out there - but like ours, it's not able to find or talk to anyone but itself.