ronburgundy
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This cool study had men and women from 4 countries use online body maps to mark where various types of people would be allowed to touch them. The results aren't just about gender differences but there are interesting and predictable gender results.
The brighter the color (yellow and white) the more comfortable being touching on that part of the body by that category of person. The red labels refer to female touchers and blue to male touchers. Women subjects (top 2 rows) were more comfortable being touched all over by their romantic partner, and more comfortable being touched on their arms, shoulders, and head by relatives and close relations of either sex. About the only time men reported greater comfort being touched compared to women was when being touched around the genitals by an opposite sex "acquaintance" (not qualifying as a "friend") and an opposite sex "stranger". In short, women are more comfortable with interpersonal contact in general, except men are more willing to get hand-jobs from opposite sex people they barely know.
An open question is how much of this difference is socially conditioned versus biological. One piece of data that would help tease that apart is whether the differences are similarly strong across generations. Gender roles are notably more murky and less enforced now than 50 years ago. The socialization hypothesis would predict much stronger gender differences among those over 50 than those under 30.
The brighter the color (yellow and white) the more comfortable being touching on that part of the body by that category of person. The red labels refer to female touchers and blue to male touchers. Women subjects (top 2 rows) were more comfortable being touched all over by their romantic partner, and more comfortable being touched on their arms, shoulders, and head by relatives and close relations of either sex. About the only time men reported greater comfort being touched compared to women was when being touched around the genitals by an opposite sex "acquaintance" (not qualifying as a "friend") and an opposite sex "stranger". In short, women are more comfortable with interpersonal contact in general, except men are more willing to get hand-jobs from opposite sex people they barely know.
An open question is how much of this difference is socially conditioned versus biological. One piece of data that would help tease that apart is whether the differences are similarly strong across generations. Gender roles are notably more murky and less enforced now than 50 years ago. The socialization hypothesis would predict much stronger gender differences among those over 50 than those under 30.
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