Hillary herself is now playing not just the gender card but the whole deck.
Hillary Clinton: Women running for office bear a 'much greater burden'
It has been long established that when women behave in the same way as successful, powerful men do, that same behavior is deemed unflattering.
Her use of the example of Bernie Sanders' (and one could include Rand Paul's) messy hair that makes them "genuine" as something that would OBVIOUSLY not fly for any woman candidate is an obvious truth.
What part of this do you disagree with?
I find that Hilary Clinton uses the discussion of gender politics MUCH MUCH MUCH MUCH MUCH less that other politicians talk about what makes their messages hard to sell. Thereby making her use of it reasonable and unremarkable. Listen to Cruz whine about how hard it is to be uinderstood as a conservative wanh wanh wanh or Trump on how hard being "an outsider" is wanh wanh wanh. I realize none of these bother you in the least and you don't find their constant overuse remarkable.
But there it is... the obvious difference in how some people perceive women no matter what they do and your post making Hilary Clinton's point perfectly.
Well done, Derec! Hillary will send out your fee tomorrow!